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Rahvin
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Message 44 of 221 (427732)
10-12-2007 4:06 PM
Reply to: Message 6 by Phat
10-12-2007 10:44 AM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Personally, Im guessing that the Reverend had some unresolved issues in his past and was using the time that his wife was away to "play" and act out what must have been a traumatic experience of his youth.
Perhaps a nitpick, but without going into personal details, I will guarantee you that many (and possibly even most) people involved in alternative sexual lifestyles (yes, including people who strap dildos to their faces) are not, in fact, doing to due to any sort of past traumatic experience.
Just becasue someone enjoys something sexually that you may not enjoy or even understand doesn't mean they necessarily have some sort of deep seated mental issues. The only assumption that would be reasonable in this case would be that, whatever his actual sexual desires were, they were repressed by his outward conservative Christian appearance.

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Rahvin
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Message 45 of 221 (427733)
10-12-2007 4:15 PM
Reply to: Message 9 by Phat
10-12-2007 11:02 AM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Its not normal to want to indulge in anal sex.
Says you. You do realize that an incredibly large proportion of pornography (and Im speaking of straight porn here as that's all I have experience with), possibly even the majority, features anal sex?
The Reverend was probably raped as a youngster...probably by a man.
Because he has sexual desires you dont personally share or understand? Not everyone is like you, Phat, and anyone who is different has not necessarily been abused in the past. hell, it's not even likely.
yet maintain that he was likely molested as a youth in order to even develop such weird fetishes.
I personally know many, many individuals who have never been molested or abused in any way and yet have what you would call unusual sexual tastes. Some even weirder than the gentleman in question (though two wetsuits at once is certainly a bit odd).
Your assertions do not flow from any evidence.

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Rahvin
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Message 47 of 221 (427736)
10-12-2007 4:22 PM
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10-12-2007 11:18 AM


Re: What constitutes normal
If the Reverends sexual habits were so normal, why was his wife not also involved?
Not everyone likes the same things, Phat. Even normal things. If you really, really like bananas, and your wife can't stand them, is liking bananas abnormal? Perhaps this man had sexual tastes that, while shared by many other people, are not shared by his wife specifically. That doesn't make him abnormal, it makes him unfortunate.
Anyone who needs to use an elaborate plethora of "gadgets" to get off has been numbed, in my opinion.
"Need" is very, very different from "like" Phat. Just becasue a certain act is stimulating doesn't mean that act is the only thing that will stimulate an individual.
I use common sense in making my judgments.
Common sense is another way of saying "I have absolutely no basis for this, and I'm completely pulling it out of my ass." In this case, you're also wrong in your generalizations (regardless of whether you're right or wrong about this particular man).
I certainly don't attempt to speak for everyone nor to suggest legislation of morality.
That's good. That makes you ignorant, but not an asshole.
It is my opinion, however, that there are limits. What these limits are, I cannot say.
You don't know what the bounds of normalcy are, but you say that this man's tastes push past them?

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Rahvin
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Message 49 of 221 (427738)
10-12-2007 4:26 PM
Reply to: Message 20 by Phat
10-12-2007 11:22 AM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Is it so wrong to assume that people can and do have baggage from their past that influences their present behavior?
Yes, if you're saying that his "perverted desires" are necessarily caused by said baggage.
Those of us you would call perverts and yet have no such past abuse take exception to it. You're basically saying "If you like anal, you're fucked up in the head, and your daddy must have raped you."
That's pretty goddamned offensive, Phat.

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Rahvin
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Message 51 of 221 (427741)
10-12-2007 4:30 PM
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10-12-2007 12:25 PM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Yes, but if we lived in a society where everyones personal business was up to them alone, we would be unable to determine any moral guidelines for our kids to follow...telling them that their conscience should be their guide.
As a result, we would be raising up and throwing off the shackles of obedience...instead following our wanton desires.
Black/white fallacy. The only two options are not "repress everything and force everyone to conform to what Phat considers normal" or "wanton, chaotic hedonism with no morality."
Let people do what they want...as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. You can allow people to determine for themselves what they should or should not do, while stil retaining a moral framework.

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Rahvin
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Message 58 of 221 (427772)
10-12-2007 9:07 PM
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10-12-2007 7:44 PM


Re: What constitutes normal
As a matter of interest, were you trying to be funny here, Rahvin?
You just reminded me of a visit (just out of curiousity, of course) to the notorious banana bar in Amsterdam many years ago.
Honestly, no. Just trying to draw a more vanilla comparison for Phat.

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Rahvin
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Message 171 of 221 (428598)
10-16-2007 10:43 PM
Reply to: Message 170 by Hyroglyphx
10-16-2007 10:35 PM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Can't I say that I don't agree with homosexuality without being slanderously referred to as a gay basher and a homophobe?
"Can't I say that I don't like black people without being slanderously referred to as a bigot and a racist?"
NO! That's what those words mean!

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Rahvin
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Message 176 of 221 (428613)
10-17-2007 12:10 AM
Reply to: Message 172 by Hyroglyphx
10-16-2007 10:57 PM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
No, since your race is inarguably something can do nothing about.
If I were to tell you, just for the sake of the argument, to suddenly enjoy sex with another man...would you be able to? I wouldn't. Sexual attraction isn't a choice, NJ, and that has been proven over and over and over again.
The day homosexuality is proven, beyond any reasonable doubt, to be a natural phenomenon, I'll change my views on it.
The only people who continue to argue that fact, NJ, are you and the other gay-bashing homophobic bigots. Sexual orientation is not a choice, period.
Since no one has successfully done that, I will continue to believe that its a psychological issue.
I have the feeling you won't believe any evidence short of your god coming down from heaven and saying it to your face, since it HAS been proven repeatedly, and evidence has been cited on this very site.
Secondly, I've never said that I don't homosexuals. I don't like the behavior
"I never said I don't like black people. I don't like the color of their skin."
I think it hurts them in the long run.
And you're wrong. Stable long-term monogomous homosexual relationships are no more harmful than heterosexual ones. And a LOT of heterosexual couples have sex the same way homosexuals do.
Just like I know a million and one people who abuse all kinds of virtues.
Irrelevant. Heterosexuality isn't a virtue, as virtue involves choice. And abstaining from sex results in severe psychological issues much of the time. See various Republicans recently.
It doesn't mean I don't like them. It means that I don't like destructive behavior.
Their behavior is a direct result of their sexual orientation, which is a part of the basic makeup of who they are. "It doesnt mean I dont like black people. It means I dont liek the color of their skin."
Unfortunately, too many people only see in black and white terms. If you disagree with something, to them they assume it must be the scourge of the earth. If you think something is just okay, they must believe that its pie in the sky.
It's not that you disagree with anyone, NJ. It's that you ARE, in fact, being a bigot, and that IS the scourge of the Earth.

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Rahvin
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Message 193 of 221 (428849)
10-17-2007 7:59 PM
Reply to: Message 192 by Hyroglyphx
10-17-2007 7:18 PM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
Gay bowel syndrome isn't a disease.
No, it's not. It's a fabrication.
No, that its existence acts negatively. Because if you allege that people are inherently born gay, then you would inexorably have to say similar things about pedophiles, cutters, zoophiles, or any psychological condition.
Minus the cutters, those are sexual attractions, NJ. To be born with such an attraction is not immoral. The only reason following through is immoral is becasue one party is not a consenting adult. With homosexuality, that is not the case. It's when you make these retarded comparisons between homosexuality and pedophilia and bestiality that you show yourself as a disgusting bigot.
I think many want to be gay, and so in their mind, they are
Why on Earth would anyone desire to be in a minority regularly persecuted by people like you, NJ? There are no benefits to being gay, and many drawbacks socially. Again, because of people like you.
There are a few homosexuals that have conceded that their homosexuality is purely for reasons of pleasure, as they find it highly erotic.
That would be very nearly the definition of sexual attraction, NJ. I like women sexually purely for reasons of pleasure, and I find sex with them to be highly erotic. Are you reading what you're typing?
Of course I agree. But what precisely gives you the ability to decide something is gross, but not allow me the deference of the same?
You can feel free to say you think gay sex is gross. I wont call you a bigot for that. But that's not what you're doing, NJ. You're making shit up to say that it's harmful or immoral. Youre equating it to child rape. That's a lot different from saying "I think that's icky, so it's not for me."
By what standards of clean are you using?
Ever had vaginal sex? It's not all that clean, either, even though the fluid secreted is typically clear. In fact, the first thing I and my girlfriend tend to do after sex (anal or vaginal) is take a shower. And besides, a condom provides a nice barrier for either orifice.
Then I should ask you the exact same thing. What gives the right to voice your opinion on the matter over my opinion?
Becasue you posted your bigotted, homophobic opinions on a debate forum, maybe?
Sure you do. You just can't admit it. You've already made judgment calls about me so that I neatly fit in the box you've made for me.
Your own words are the only things that define your box, NJ. You're the only one who doesn't see it.
If I'm gay bashing, then you Christian bash and conservative bash. You aren't really that obtuse Crash. Think it through.
Tu Quoque much? You ARE gay bashing. Whether Crash is bashing Christians and conservatives is irrelevant to that fact.
I don't hate anyone.
If it looks like a duck, and it sounds like a duck...

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Rahvin
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Message 197 of 221 (428865)
10-17-2007 10:30 PM
Reply to: Message 195 by Hyroglyphx
10-17-2007 9:11 PM


Re: Conservative Blogs tell a different story
he vagina lubricates. The anus does not. What do mean by the "same glands" when they very evidently don't?
The rectum DOES lubricate. Otherwise you wouldn't be able to pass stool. That's already been mentioned earlier in the thread. In fact, while some girls like to give themselves an enema before anal sex fro additional cleanliness, this is actually ill-advised as it will also clean out the natural lubrication, making anal sex more difficult.
Post-menopausal women don't procreate, which makes it a moot point either way.
Did that REALLY go so far over your head? That's the point - if procreation is the justification for sex, then post-menopausal or infertile women (or men who've had vasectomies, or even using birth control!) are also just as immoral as homosexual sex. If those things are NOT immoral, then the justification is clearly NOT procreation, and therefor homosexual sex is also not immoral by that standard.
Heterosexual sex involves consenting adults seeking sexual pleasure. Homosexual sex is exactly the same thing.

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