One of the things that I hate more than anything is when someone at work overhears me mentoring someone (usually concerning a divorce situation - that stuff is running wild where I work at) and they later approach me. They usually start off with the "I overheard the advice you were giving so-and-so and it sounded like Christian advice. Are you a Christian?" This is usually followed by the "me too!" routine and then they start telling me how good and holy they are and how they never would allow themselves to get so excited over a football game like I do becuase that's so worldly. They put themselves on a pedestal and try to elevate themselves in my eyes. All I want to do is go get them another piece of that forbidden fruit and say munch away.
I'd much rather work with a group of non-christians than the leagalistic head hunter variety that I run into. Actually, that whole "better than you" gig is just a manifestation of the pride that people carry which God says he hates. I have a problem with the issue of pride myself so don't let me make anyone thing that I have that mastered by any call. It's just easier to do my job without having to listen to someone quacking about how holy they are.
The first sin commited in the garden was actually the harboring of pride by both Adam and Eve. That's why God judged them both the same. They weren't created perfect, just sinless to start. They were given a sin nature because they were given the opportunity to sin with the choice of produce in the garden section. It would make no sense for God to give them the opportunity to sin without the ability also. The Serpent took full advantage of this with his conversation. The fact that Eve added to the directive given by God means that they had discussed the issue at some length before the encounter with the Serpent. If after such a discussion they had agreed with God's directive, the conversation would have ended with either or both quoteing God and then pressing on. The fact that they were in close proximity to the tree when atleast some of the serpent's conversation happened shows that they had doubts prior to anything the serpent said and this stems from pride.
Personally, I think that God would have called them on their pride anyhow just as he called Cain on his. Some say that God set man up for failure by stacking the deck against him, but I look at it more like God was looking for the purest form of worship that could be solicited. If you have a created being that is given a free will, an ability to sin and the tools to commit it, along with a crafty salesman (salessnake) and the created being chooses to forego the sin and worship the creator instead as the creator specifies, then you have genuine love and adoration in the purest form.
Since the fall became manifest, God didn't trash the plan of pure worship from his created beings, but now added more value into man by paying for the debt himself. I personallly cannot understand the great value that God sees in us. I love my wife and kids imeasurably. I would instantly give my life to save theirs which is the ultimate act of love according to the Bible. But the Bible says that all the hairs on everyone's head are numbered by God. As much as I love my wife and kids, I have yet to do any more than to curse at the ammount of hair that I have to clean out of the hair brushes stuffed in the left hand drawer in the bathroom sink vanity.