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Author Topic:   Homosexuality, the natural choice? (Gay Animals are Common)
crashfrog
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Message 141 of 306 (375768)
01-09-2007 8:30 PM
Reply to: Message 140 by Fosdick
01-09-2007 8:29 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
You can speak for yourself, crashfrog, but I never CHOOSE to br straight”I am NATURALLY straight. (Maybe that's my problem.)
If you didn't have any choice about it yourself, why should we believe that anybody else has a choice? Particularly when gay people themselves are so certain that their sexual orientation was not voluntarily established?

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crashfrog
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Message 143 of 306 (375774)
01-09-2007 9:03 PM
Reply to: Message 142 by Fosdick
01-09-2007 8:46 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
Calling that "marriage," however, flies in the face of tradition.
That's not true. Many African countries, for instance, have millenia-old traditions of marriage. Of course, you might just as well argue that things like
1) Monogamous marriage
2) Marriage for love
3) Marriage that is voluntary for women
4) Marriage between persons of differing race or religion
fly in the face of tradition - because that's exactly what they did. The truth of the matter is simple, but apparently you've missed it - the only tradition in marriage is change.
I take it you're not married?
If they had any grace at all they'd give it a break.
Why? They don't even have civil unions, yet. I don't think the oppressed are under an obligation to just shut up and take it simply because you find them audacious for asking for the same rights you have.

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crashfrog
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Message 149 of 306 (375866)
01-10-2007 12:34 PM
Reply to: Message 146 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 11:45 AM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
The marriage institution was set up for heterosexual unions, was it not?
No, it was originally set up as a means of property exchange. Later it became a tool of statecraft. Still later it became a tool for preserving racial and religious boundaries.
You've never been married, have you? Because clearly you don't seem to know much about marriage.
And now we are suppose to change that because "gay pride" says we should?
No, actually, because our constitution says we should.

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crashfrog
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Message 155 of 306 (375879)
01-10-2007 1:16 PM
Reply to: Message 151 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 12:53 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
I am having avery hard time imagining that the framers of our Consitution were out to protect "the rights" of gays to get married.
What part of the fourteenth amendment are you having trouble reading?
In fact, it was well-known to the Framers at the time that the Constitution would have to be applied in ways they couldn't even predict. Jefferson wrote extensively about this, and it's the reason that the fourth amendment requires the police to have a warrant to search not only your property, but also your phone calls.
Why do you refuse to take these issues seriously?

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crashfrog
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Message 175 of 306 (375935)
01-10-2007 3:52 PM
Reply to: Message 157 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 1:36 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
Let them be "civilly united" and go gayly on their way with every single right bestowed upon the officially married heterosexuals. If they want to call themselves "married," let 'em do it.
If they get all the rights of marriage, and they can even call themselves married if they want, then I don't see what distinction you're drawing between civil unions and marriages.
Are you saying you want to be able to call some marriages "civil unions" and others "marriages"? I don't see any reason you're being prevented from doing that. What, exactly, is your issue here, then?
But I don't think the lawmakers need pass special laws protecting their rights to call themselves whatever the want to.
Since plenty of gays call themselves married now (like my uncle-in-law, who lives in Arlington), I don't see that the laws have to change, either.
But in order for gays to have civil unions, yes, the laws do have to be changed. So when you say "let them have civil unions but don't change the laws", I know you're not taking this at all seriously, because your position is self-contradicting.

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crashfrog
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Message 177 of 306 (375937)
01-10-2007 3:54 PM
Reply to: Message 160 by New Cat's Eye
01-10-2007 2:28 PM


Re: 14th Amendment
In order for two men to get married, marriage would have to be changed to be between a person and a person.
Actually, it already is. That's what it said when I filed for a marriage license - "Person 1" and "Person 2." In Minnesota, Nicollete county, anyway.

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crashfrog
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Message 178 of 306 (375938)
01-10-2007 3:55 PM
Reply to: Message 176 by New Cat's Eye
01-10-2007 3:52 PM


Re: 14th Amendment
But marriage is not defined as being between two people of the same race.
But that's exactly how it had been defined - between a man and woman of the same race.

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crashfrog
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Message 183 of 306 (375947)
01-10-2007 4:06 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by New Cat's Eye
01-10-2007 4:03 PM


Re: 14th Amendment
Show me.
Where and when "marriage" was defined? Actually:
quote:
Homos were singled out, or not considered, when marriage was created.
Since you're the one who was, apparently, there when it happened, you show me.
The point of the case was that the law had defined marriage as being between a man and woman of the same race. That definition was ruled unconstitutional. Definitions don't trump the constitution; quite the opposite.

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crashfrog
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Message 189 of 306 (375954)
01-10-2007 4:24 PM
Reply to: Message 185 by New Cat's Eye
01-10-2007 4:11 PM


Re: 14th Amendment
I don't think that was explicitly stated, just that people said it was implied. I mean, it did get shot down.
Jesus Christ, CS, use some sense. What got shot down, if not a law explicitly disallowing interracial marriages?
We're talking about a law called the "Racial Integrity Act" And you think a ban on interracial marriage was simply implied?
Where the law says of the same race. I thought it was just implied and not written in there.
From the Racial Integrity Act of 1924:
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crashfrog
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Message 190 of 306 (375955)
01-10-2007 4:26 PM
Reply to: Message 186 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 4:17 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
You're quoting me here?
Not directly (and my use of quotation marks aren't meant to imply that), but what is your position if not:
1) Civil unions are sufficient;
2) There's no need to change the laws.
? Since you've taken both those positions repeatedly (and I can quote you, if you like), what else am I supposed to conclude?
And since now you're using transparent and intellectually dishonest dodges to avoid defending your position, what should I conclude from that?

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crashfrog
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Message 215 of 306 (376000)
01-10-2007 6:40 PM
Reply to: Message 193 by New Cat's Eye
01-10-2007 4:34 PM


Re: 14th Amendment
We don't have an act that says that gays cannot get married.
What are you smoking? Don't you ever open a newspaper?
In addition to the Federal Defense of Marriage Act, which bars any federal recognition of gay marriage across all 50 states, 30 states have some form of legal prohibition against same-sex marriages, 20 of which include amendments to their constitution.
Seriously, CS. What's the deal? It's amazing to me that you could be this ignorant on this issue, yet still argue about it so adamantly. Did it ever occur to you to find out what you're talking about? Or are you still playing the game where you make up your own facts?
Marriage is between a husband and a wife by default.
No. Only by unconstitutional convention and specific legal acts.

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crashfrog
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Message 219 of 306 (376029)
01-10-2007 8:25 PM
Reply to: Message 216 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 7:03 PM


Re: Gay "marriage" & gay genes
I'm sorry, but could you suspend the histronics and address my point?

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crashfrog
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Message 221 of 306 (376031)
01-10-2007 8:27 PM
Reply to: Message 217 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 7:42 PM


Re: So let's check it out?
How are we going to do that without changing the laws, HM? Which you've stated is something you don't want to happen?
Isn't it somewhat disingenuous of you to act like you advocate a policy when you refuse to allow it to be enacted?

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crashfrog
Member (Idle past 1497 days)
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Message 223 of 306 (376033)
01-10-2007 8:38 PM
Reply to: Message 222 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 8:36 PM


Re: So let's check it out?
Sorry, I don't get it. Crashfrog, you might be too abstract for my pre-fossilized mind.
Let me dumb it down for you, then.
Do you understand, Hoot Man, that there are no such things as "civil unions" under any current federal or state statue? That "civil union" is not a legal construct that exists in the United States?
Is the question sufficiently clear, now? It's a yes or no question.

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crashfrog
Member (Idle past 1497 days)
Posts: 19762
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Message 225 of 306 (376039)
01-10-2007 8:52 PM
Reply to: Message 224 by Fosdick
01-10-2007 8:50 PM


Re: So let's check it out?
Oops, it is "Mon." My apologies.
Well, let's vote 'em in then. Haven't I already said that?
What you've said is that the laws shouldn't be changed.

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