RR writes:
We need hope, we need understanding, we need Love, and a bunch of other human nessessitys.
OK.
RR writes:
God as I imagine Him is all those things.
RR writes:
People who don't believe in a god, still seek those things.
Ergo others don't need to base their search for these things on your imagined notion of God.
Some have a completely different notion of God to you and others make no association between the needs you list and any godly notions at all.