And I suspect that all the floundering I've seen thus far is because my question presents a conundrum for those taking a pro-abortion stance, which is why I'm having a hard time getting a straight up answer.
Who's floundering? I demolished your entire argument back on the first page, on post 8 - and received absolutely no reply. The question is - why are
you floundering?
Is it because you still can't see the problem from the perspective of a woman and her ability to make choices about who gets to live inside her uterus?
You are either Pro-abortion or anti-abortion.
That doesn't make any sense. The pro-choice side isn't interested in making women have abortions - they're interested in women being able to
choose abortions if that's what's best for them, or
not choose abortions, if they don't want to have one. How can that be "pro-abortion"? (It really is impossible for you to imagine women making choices for themselves, isn't it?)
Let's try another formulation. Your side is "pro-forced birth", since your side believes that the state can force women with unwanted pregnancies to give birth to them anyway. Our side is "anti-forced birth." Much clearer, no?