We throw elbows here, Tram, frequently on purpose but just as frequently out of brevity. If every post had to be "if I may" this and "by your leave" that, it would simply take too long.
And as much as you complain about
our rudeness, any attempt to correct
you on any issue, on etiquette, or basically any other thing, gets met with absolutely nothing but immaturity from you.
We get it. You're just gonna do whatever you feel like and not listen to anybody. That's fine. But you can't be
that and be thin-skinned to boot.