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onifre
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Message 22 of 234 (536721)
11-24-2009 4:32 PM
Reply to: Message 16 by Hyroglyphx
11-24-2009 3:49 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Right, so let the church handle it and not the government is what I'm saying.
Fuck the church, why should they have a say so?
What is it about that institution that makes them above the laws of equal rights?
I say, if the church holds marriage ceremonies, then they should honor anyone that wants to get married. If the don't, then fuck 'em, they don't have the right to marry anyone.
Yes they are because it is defiling the sanctity that God instituted.
That who instituted?
And I'm saying that the government never had a right (at least in the US) to start butting its nose in the affairs of the church to begin with.
Why not? What makes the church above the laws of equal rights? Because they claim an invisible man wrote a book that claims certain people shouldn't get married? That's superstitious bullshit, and they have no right to claim it in a modern society.
If they perform marriage ceremonies, then they need to be equal to everyone. If not, then the government doesn't recognize their marriages.
As I see it the way it is now, civil unions for homosexuals is nothing more than a "separate but equal" policy. Why not get rid of that stigma altogether, let religion have its traditional marriages and let secular society have theirs too?
Because, the "traditional" church marriages want the same rights as the "secular" marriages. Rights that are governed by the state. Therefore, the state has a say so.
However, if they want to have mock weddings that are not recognized by the state, then sure, exclude anyone you want. But if the state needs to recognize the marriages, then the church gives up its right to be an independent institution.
Whatever the church decides, I see it as a private enterprise that I have no right in saying what should go on, so long as it does not infringe upon others
Clearly you can see how it infringes upon others, right? Aren't homosexuals "others"?
Both should be allowed to worship freely in the manner fitting to their doctrines.
Right, but then they don't get to also be equally recognized by the state as being legally married.
The state should step up and say, you are excluding a portion of our society who have the same rights as everyone else, so, as long as you do this, your marriage ceremonies are not going to be recognized by us, the state.
If there was as much controversy over either of those things the way it is with gay marriage, then I might consider it, yes.
There is only controversy toward gay marriages because a bunch of idiots are making it an issue. Why should we listen to these fuck heads?
Why does anyone give a shit if gay people get married? What difference does that make in anyones life? None, at all, not even a little bit.
So the people who are making it an issue should be ignored. And the institutions that exclude people based on sexual preference should not be given any credibility, or allowed to dictate any social policy.
It would be like not allowing black people to take part in communion, or something like that. No one would stand for that, why allow them to get away with this?
Like it or not, marriage has always been defined as being between a man and a woman
...and we have decided to change that, because we are society that values progress.
Its not between a man and a woman anymore. People are free to be openly gay now (which they weren't before, that is why marriage was between a man and a woman), so fuck the past and lets look toward the future where everyone is included in everything.
Why have it any other way?
- Oni

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onifre
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Message 26 of 234 (536746)
11-24-2009 8:19 PM
Reply to: Message 23 by xongsmith
11-24-2009 6:45 PM


Re: Civil Chaos for all!
I guess I didn't take you as serious as the other guys did. I thought the whole post was hilarious.
There are a whole shitload of issues, but the gay marriage issue - to me - is safely well inside the Venn Diagram circle of what I will have no problem with.
I agree, I have no problem with it. I can't see how its even relevant in my life.
I think I'd have a problem with the sheep though.
Thought YOU and RAZD might find the beginning of this video funny, and the rest of the video is funny too (and on topic!):
- Oni

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onifre
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Message 41 of 234 (536821)
11-25-2009 9:31 AM
Reply to: Message 38 by iano
11-25-2009 7:06 AM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
but does this mean a male 'husband' could demand the right to call his male 'wife's anus .. a 'vagina'?
I think that's the first time you've made me lol.
- Oni

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onifre
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Message 47 of 234 (536856)
11-25-2009 11:44 AM
Reply to: Message 44 by Hyroglyphx
11-25-2009 10:49 AM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Lets start with this, since I think it exposes the heart of the issue.
Reverse discrimination is still discrimination.
Ok. So you admit that the other side is discriminating, my suggestion would be the reverse of it. Fine, I retract my suggestion. I agree with you that the other side is discriminating, and it is what I base my argument on.
There is an institution, with political affilitation, that is openly discriminating against a group of human beings. This is exactly what the civil rights movement was based on as well.
The Church should have say over the affairs of the church, and the government should have say over the affairs of civil matters the way it is penned in the Constitution.
Fine. But that doesn't awared them sole custody of the word "marriage."
They're not above the law. The Church should have the right to say they don't want to marry homosexuals if it goes against their beliefs.
So then they are allowed to violate equal rights...?
Rather, in order to be legally married, one must get a civil union. And civil unions would be open to all regardless of race, sexual orientation, etc. Everything but age would factor in.
Why change the name to civil union? For me to get legally married I went and got a Marriage License, then I signed some papers and I was legally married. To change it to civil union is ridiculous at this point.
If their God says that homosexuality is an abomination, fine whatever.
Really? So its OK for them to discriminate against another group of people because their god said so?
That's bullshit. So as long as we credit it to "god," anything goes? Blacks can't get married in my church because my god doesn't like them ... would you be cool with that too?
Society looks down on institutions that discriminate for any basis (the Klan, white supremacist, etc.) - why be cool with churches that do this same thing?
And its not just small churches, its big churches too. Its church leaders, TV personalities, people with political affiliations.
It can't be allowed, not in a progressive society like ours.
Who gives you the right to smear your secularist beliefs all over thousands of years of tradition by forcing them to conform to society rather than Almighty God?
We ALL conform to the laws of society. We don't allow discrimination, period. Whether you're discriminating because Hilter told you, Stalin told you, or "Almighty God" told you ... its bullshit in any case.
Why not let religion marry whoever they want in accordance with their beliefs BUT strip them of any and all legal authority to officially recognize people in unions?
Because their beliefs discriminate for no reason.
How about this, religions can perform ceremonial unions, but marriage as recognized by the state is for EVERYONE.
If they are going to discriminate, then they change the word.
Why not give only justices of the peace the authority to legally marry people?
Yea, that's what I'm saying. Anything else, other than the justice of the peace is not a marriage.
They infringe upon each others beliefs without my proposal in place. My way lets them all have their cake and eat it too!
Yea, but one gets "union" cake and the other gets "marriage" cake.
Homosexuals are asking to be accepted as normal people, just as blacks were and every other minority has also. Why allow the church the right to discriminate, when we wouldn't allow it done to any other minority?
Civil unions (secular marriages) will.
What the hell is a civil union? Its marriage across the board for everyone. Its not "secular" or "religious" - its marriage. And like you suggested, only the justice of the peace can legally marry you.
Anything else is not a marriage.
That's silly. Reverse discrimination is still discrimination.
As long as you now admit that they're discriminating.
- Oni

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onifre
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Message 91 of 234 (536952)
11-25-2009 11:16 PM
Reply to: Message 53 by Hyroglyphx
11-25-2009 1:27 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Yes I agree, but the problem is that there needs to be an amendment made to the Constitution in order for homosexual marriage to be federally protected.
If the government has allowed you to legally marry someone, you must not be allowed to discriminate.
That would be equal to a polling booth only allowing republicans to vote, and openly discriminating against dems.
If you're representing the government you can't openly discriminate, even if god tells you; god's laws do NOT supersede state laws, sorry.
White Power movements are allowed to dismiss equal rights.
White power movements are not legally marrying anyone (that I'm aware of).
I'm just saying it makes more sense so as to not confuse religious marriage with civil marriage.
There is only civil marriage. No other marriage exists. The rest is smokes and mirrors to make mom happy.
However, if a representative of a church has been allowed by the state to legally marry people, this person cannot discriminate anyone. They must act as the state would act and marry anyone, if not, then they are not allowed to marry anyone and are removed of their right. But this is not happening because the state is not acting on it.
Yes, really. It's called the freedom of speech and if you'd like to have a free society it means sometimes putting up with bigoted views.
No, not anything. You still can't physcially harm people, but you can believe whatever you want.
I wouldn't agree with it, but I would respect it. Racists have a right to be racist. They just don't have a right to hurt other people because they're racist.
Fine, and I agree. Be whatever you want to be. But then they can't marry anyone. They don't get that right.
What??? That's exactly how it should work. Anything less is fascism, communism, or any other ism that threatens free society.
You misunderstand.
The state allows people to marry individuals. If you are one of the people the state has allowed to do this, then you are acting as a representative for the state. If this person happens to belong to a church, it is of no importance. Their church beliefs do not supersede the laws. The state would not EVER discriminate toward anyone getting married for any other reason, they can't allow people to discriminate because of sexual orientation.
Thus, any individual given the right to marry people must not be allowed to discriminate either.
Yes I know. It doesn't matter. People are allowed to have whatever beliefs they want. And the people that don't like it are allowed to protest their beliefs in order to cahnge things. That's how free societies work.
No one would have to protest in this case if the state would just adhere to their own standards. They wouldn't discriminate anyone trying to get married for any other reason, so they should not discriminate based on sexual orientation.
And, if the state has allowed certain people to act on their behalf, then these people should adhere to those standards as well.
Its not a matter of protesting anything, its simply a matter of practicing equal rights, and making sure anyone representing you is also practicing it as well. The state should make sure those representing it are acting accordingly.
Oni writes:
How about this, religions can perform ceremonial unions, but marriage as recognized by the state is for EVERYONE.
Hyro writes:
Yeah, that's what I'm saying! That's it, man. You nailed it on the head. You just summarized my entire argument.
Cool, then we are in agreement.
- Oni
Btw, Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
That goes for anyone else reading this, Happy Thanksgiving everyone (sorry Euro people, no turkey for you!).
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onifre
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Message 95 of 234 (537029)
11-26-2009 10:41 AM
Reply to: Message 94 by Hyroglyphx
11-26-2009 9:15 AM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
You say Pastor Joe has no right to deny homosexual marriage on the basis that he doesn't supersede state or federal law. Pastor Joe says that God's law trumps all law. So wouldn't it be easier to disallow people working in a religious setting to have any legal authority at all?
Well, if they adhere to the law then I see no reason why they shouldn't be allowed.
I know, I get that, hence why I am saying isn't it optimal to completely disallow any religious institution from ever having any government authority to do anything?
Oh sure, it would be. However, if they adhere to the law, then maybe they should be allowed. I guess. I really don't care at that point.
I know it seems odd that my argument be more directed towards the separation of church and state, but I think the controversy of homosexual marriage ties in to that.
It can be tied to that. But I think the core issue with homosexuals is that they are disriminated against and we should not allow this in our society. There are many ways to combat this, some legal some by protest. And hopefully in the end it will be settled in a morally conscious way.
Yeah you too. I think it's going to be lame one this year. My whole family is down where you live. Swing by the Coral Gables/Coconut Grove area for me and drop them off a turkey. I'll reimburse you for any expenses incurred.
Sure man, I'll take a povo to your people. lol
Guess who I'm working at the Miami Improv with this weekend? Bret Ernst!
- Oni

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onifre
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Message 102 of 234 (537187)
11-27-2009 12:50 PM
Reply to: Message 100 by Rrhain
11-27-2009 10:52 AM


If he didn't mean to compare gays to rapists, he shouldn't have done it.
He didn't, he was making a point about how some people feel. He clearly stated that.
You, who values comprehension so much, should try doing that when reading some of these posts, and not be so quick to reply without understanding what you are replying to.
Indeed, there are people who think that being gay is a terrible sin and they don't want to "legitimize" that in any way, shape, or form.
So just say that. Why bring up rapists?
Who cares? If you understood the jist of what he said why harp on his comparison?
You are cluttering up the thread with pointless arguments.
- Oni

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