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Huntard
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Message 8 of 234 (536677)
11-24-2009 1:07 PM
Reply to: Message 7 by Rahvin
11-24-2009 12:56 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
While I agree that everybody should be able to marry (and in my country, gays can). I personally don't see problem to the following solution:
Make every marriage a "civil union", and allow churches to "marry" people, but don't give the church marriages any legal status. Meaning that people who want to get married can (in a church, this will probably exclude gays), and gays and straight people can both get "civil unions", where they get the legal status of what is now a marriage. Are people really that retarded to protest because it just has a different name?
By the way, this is kinda how it works in my country. Church marriages have no legal status whatsoever, in fact, you can't get married by a church unless you first get married by law. It's just called marriage all around.

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My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
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Huntard
Member (Idle past 2325 days)
Posts: 2870
From: Limburg, The Netherlands
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Message 15 of 234 (536709)
11-24-2009 3:43 PM
Reply to: Message 12 by Rahvin
11-24-2009 2:32 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Rahvin writes:
If I get married, I want to be married. I don't want a civil union and a partner - I want a fucking wife.
First of all, really? What does it matter what you call her. You can still call her your wife. You can call her you bitch (not thtat I recommend that, nor approve of it), your spouse, your better half, or whatever else you just happen to come up with. Why would you have to be married to call her your wife?
I imagine that gay couples, by and large, feel the same way.
It doesn't even mean the same to me. It's completely the same as a civil union as far as I am concerned.
And I agree compeltely - except that I don't think that separating church and state required abandoning "marriage" as a secular concept.
It's just a word. I don't care what they call it.
If the word is used so universally, and has so little to do with the trraditions of an individual religion, why would we ever want to change the definition so that only religious institutions get to use it?
Why do we worry about words anyway, aren't the rights connected to them far more important?
Should we make separate secular words for other shared practices?
If you want to, sure. Also, they have no legal ramifications whatsoever.
The fact is that the word "marriage" has meaning for everyone.
To me, it means the same as civil union. It's a contract, nothing more, nothing less.
There is absolutely no rational justification for making "marriage" a religious-only institution while using secular civil unions when there is functionally nothing different at all.
Other then the fact that it doesn't matter what you call something, as long as the rights remain the same, no not really.

I hunt for the truth
I am the one Orgasmatron, the outstretched grasping hand
My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
My name is called religion, sadistic, sacred whore.
-Lyrics by Lemmy Kilmister of Motorhead

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Huntard
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Message 20 of 234 (536717)
11-24-2009 4:08 PM
Reply to: Message 18 by Taz
11-24-2009 3:54 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Taz writes:
For the millionth time, this is another way of saying "I'm too bigoted to allow gays to marry, so let those faggots have civil union and drink out of a different drinking fountain than I am..."
That's not what I am saying. I say same rights for everybody, I just don't care what they call it.
There is a reason why gay people in general don't accept this bullshit proposal that you and other bigots (yes, I'm accusing you of bigotry) always seem to propose. Separate can never be equal.
There's no seperation. The rights are completely equal.
So, I take it you think black people should only equal 3/5 of a real person?
Not really, no.
Again, a bullshit way of saying "I'm too bigoted to want other people to have the same rights as I do..."
Again, same rights for all, the label those rights get is completely irrelevant to me.

I hunt for the truth
I am the one Orgasmatron, the outstretched grasping hand
My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
My name is called religion, sadistic, sacred whore.
-Lyrics by Lemmy Kilmister of Motorhead

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Huntard
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From: Limburg, The Netherlands
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Message 37 of 234 (536788)
11-25-2009 4:17 AM
Reply to: Message 28 by Rrhain
11-24-2009 11:04 PM


Rrhain writes:
This will require rewriting literally tens of thousands of laws across federal, state, and municipal jurisdictions. All currently "married" couples will need to be relicensed as the contracts refer to "marriage," not "civil union." Too, this will mean that no federally recognized contract will be recognized outside of the United States because other countries recognize "marriage," not "civil union."
Hmm, yes that last part may cause a problem. Stupid legalese.
If you were to try to provide your old "marriage" license, you would be engaging in fraud because you no longer have a "marriage" contract.
Also a problem then. I hadn't thought of those consequences.
That's the problem with the argument that this is just a matter of semantics. It isn't. There is a whole structure of legal activity predicated around the contract of "marriage" that simply cannot be adjusted by later writing, "Well, we really mean 'civil union,' instead." Legal precedent is that words have specific meanings. That's why the warnings say, "Do not fold, spindle, or mutilate." You'd think that "mutilate" would cover the first two, but it doesn't. They are different things and thus different words are used.
Bah, I hate these stupid things. Like the story I keep hearing about a woman that supposedly put her cat in the microwave to dry it and it died, ending up sueing the company and won, because they hadn't put it in the manual that drying cats isn't a function of the microwave oven (no idea if that is true). I mean how fucking stupid do these things need to be?
It isn't a question of people. It's a question of the law.
So the law's retarded? Yeah I guess, it's probably more trouble then it's worth. Any idea what the current text in the law syas regarding marriage? Is it defined as between two people, or as between man and woman? Or something else?
Your "civil union" isn't recognized here because it isn't a "marriage." That's the law. If it were a marriage, you'd call it a "marriage." Since you're calling it something else, that means it is something else and thus cannot be a "marriage."
Hmm... Seeing all the trouble that could ensue with this different name, because laws are stupid that way, then the easiest would indeed be to call it marriage.
That's pretty much how it works in the US, too: A church marriage means absolutely nothing. The only way to get a legal marriage is to go to the clerk and sign a marriage contract. Now, priests, captains of ships, and various other people are commonly given authority by the state to fill in the appropriate paperwork on that contract, but it's still a legal contract, not a religious one.
And that's impossible here. The only ones that are able to fill out the legal document are the civil servants in the local "governments"(not sure what to call them at county level)
That was a lovely ceremony, but the couple didn't actually get married standing in front of the altar.
Well they did, in the eyes of the church. There's absolutely no legal consequence, but I'm guessing the church will view them as "married", right?
They got married when they signed a piece of paper back in the priest's office.
Yes, for the law, that's when they got married.
The priest may decide not to sign it unless they went through the ceremony, but the ceremony has no legal standing.
Yep, that's the way it is here, except that a priest can't sign the document.

I hunt for the truth
I am the one Orgasmatron, the outstretched grasping hand
My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
My name is called religion, sadistic, sacred whore.
-Lyrics by Lemmy Kilmister of Motorhead

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Huntard
Member (Idle past 2325 days)
Posts: 2870
From: Limburg, The Netherlands
Joined: 09-02-2008


Message 39 of 234 (536813)
11-25-2009 7:56 AM
Reply to: Message 38 by iano
11-25-2009 7:06 AM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Seems rather weird. Why not simple let them call eachother "husband". What's wrong with that?
And it's got nothing to do with "demanding rights". I expect two adult people that love eachother to find a mutual agreement on what to call eachother and their private parts. (For your information, there are gays that actually call the anus a "male vagina").

I hunt for the truth
I am the one Orgasmatron, the outstretched grasping hand
My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
My name is called religion, sadistic, sacred whore.
-Lyrics by Lemmy Kilmister of Motorhead

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Huntard
Member (Idle past 2325 days)
Posts: 2870
From: Limburg, The Netherlands
Joined: 09-02-2008


Message 61 of 234 (536887)
11-25-2009 2:00 PM
Reply to: Message 51 by Rahvin
11-25-2009 12:50 PM


Re: Civil Unions for all!
Rahvin writes:
Somewhat related to the current discussion, the word "fag" has changed significantly over time. It has ranged from a collection of firewood, to a disparaging term for an elderly person, to a cigarette, to a disparaging remark in reference to homosexuals, etc. It's still changing today, as the word "fag" is now often used as a generalized insult against anyone. Give it 20 years and it may have absolutely nothing to do with homosexuals at all any more.
Actually, it already doesn't since it current meaning is:
1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate
person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.
(pop culture reference for the win)
Edited by Huntard, : decided to add link for clarity

I hunt for the truth
I am the one Orgasmatron, the outstretched grasping hand
My image is of agony, my servants rape the land
Obsequious and arrogant, clandestine and vain
Two thousand years of misery, of torture in my name
Hypocrisy made paramount, paranoia the law
My name is called religion, sadistic, sacred whore.
-Lyrics by Lemmy Kilmister of Motorhead

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