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Message 45 of 306 (312213)
05-15-2006 9:48 PM
Reply to: Message 43 by jar
05-15-2006 9:45 PM


Re: More evidence of the Failure of Abstinence programs.
We know that is your position.
Hardly. If you KNOW that is my position you can't answer it with statistics about how sexual activity increases when abstinence is taught, because that is totally irrelevant to my position, but that's all anybody here has had to say. Except for ignorant head in the sand denial of the increase in STDs.

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Message 48 of 306 (312218)
05-15-2006 10:02 PM
Reply to: Message 46 by anglagard
05-15-2006 9:52 PM


Re: Abstinence Education Refused
Parental involvement and teaching what the public schools leave out is always the way to go. Congratulations.

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Message 55 of 306 (312228)
05-15-2006 10:37 PM
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05-15-2006 10:12 PM


Re: More evidence of the Failure of Abstinence programs.
Care to provide some statistical evidence for said increase, along with specifics of their exact nature?
There are new STD's emerging all the time, but I think incidence of the older ones is down a lot and they are more treatable and ameliorated in impact than ever before.
It's really common knowledge except to those who don't want it to be. Go read the link at Message 36. It's a medical site. If you want more specifics look them up yourself.
Take note of my Message 32 also where the older generation of STDs known as venereal diseases is mentioned.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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Message 56 of 306 (312231)
05-15-2006 10:52 PM
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in more detail
There are new STD's emerging all the time,
Yes as a result of sexual promiscuity, which is a violation of God's moral law, which is being punished by diseases.
but I think incidence of the older ones is down a lot and they are more treatable and ameliorated in impact than ever before.
Thanks to science I might add, not any ridiculous abstinence pipe dream.
Yes, God blesses us by permitting science to keep things controllable up to a point, but this can't last forever, sin spreading disease and science trying to catch up. And cures? Not even syphilis and gonorrhea are wiped out, plus we now have STDs in the general population that weren't there before that are not treatable yet -- the herpes and HPV viruses. Gynecologists now routinely test for HPV because of its reputed connection with cervical cancer.
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Message 58 of 306 (312234)
05-15-2006 10:56 PM
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05-15-2006 10:54 PM


Re: More evidence of the Failure of Abstinence programs.
What is your point? The fact that we have a couple of ancient diseases suppressed means what? We have half a dozen brand new ones, some incurable ones so far, at least one just about guaranteed lethal. Your point is?
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Message 60 of 306 (312266)
05-15-2006 11:46 PM
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05-15-2006 11:00 PM


Re: STD's are not good.
What you are ignoring is the topic. Abstinence only sex education is NOT a good way to deal with STD's (or any other bad side effect of sex).
It is in fact the ONLY way, but of course it isn't going to work in the current atmosphere that trivializes the moral questions involved and treats it as a practical issue or a health issue. If people would enforce it as a moral rather than practical solution, meaning if the whole thing could be seen in moral terms as it mostly used to be seen, and argued from a moral position rather than this relativistic they'll-do-it-anyway-and-who-cares point of view there would be more motivation to self control. But as long as the culture in general treats sex as this casual thing that carries no real consequences no program at all is going to work for long anyway.
If sexual promiscuity is bad and saying it is a violation of God's moral law (even to believing Christians) doesn't stop it from happening what is the best way to stop bad things like STD's and prenancy?
Get more serious about it instead of caving in to the permissive culture. What can I say? The whole atmosphere is so wishywashy about it of course nobody takes it seriously. But why should condoms and education work any better? Kids aren't easily scared of diseases -- they tend to think they're going to live forever.
If you are saying that diseases are punishment from God then I'm sure you would never (for fear of your mortal soul) take any anti-biotics, right?
Oh brother. No, the diseases go with the territory of sin, they are just built into it. But cures for diseases are also provided by God who has mercy on our struggles in our fallen stupidities and hopes we will yet repent and turn to Him. Still, we may well be approaching the point where the balance is turning and the sin and disease factor outstrips the mercy factor in our national life.
You aren't actually, as a Christian, saying you want people to suffer for their transgressions are you? Are you?
( please say you are. Us atheists just love it when Christians show their true nature and how abborant they can really be. )
Yes you do enjoy your smug self-congratulatory little game don't you?

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Message 62 of 306 (312296)
05-16-2006 1:46 AM
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05-16-2006 1:27 AM


Re: What has NEVER worked.
Well, what you are proposing is what is going to be done anyway. The culture isn't going to change back overnight. But if people keep saying "moralizing doesn't work" it CERTAINLY isn't going to change. Young people like to think philosophically, idealistically and morally. No reason why it couldn't work if people could get their heads together about it.
But I'm sure people are going to keep saying that it doesn't work. Nobody really gets why it's a moral issue any more. Really it depends on the culture turning back to its Christian roots and I'm afraid that REALLY doesn't look very likely. I can pray for a miracle of course. If the nation has rejected Christ, though, funny but it seems like it's in a mood that it could just about accept Islam. Weird but that is the trend I detect. THEN you'll get "moralistic!"
So I know what I'm saying is never going to happen. Nevertheless it's the only thing that WOULD straighten things out in the long run. If we keep going the way we've been going the nation is just going to self-destruct, accumulating diseases that eventually science can't cope with sufficiently, accumulating social problems from single parenting and the like that will eventually be beyond the economy's ability to support. It's already happening really, but all the fallout hasn't yet been felt.
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Message 66 of 306 (312337)
05-16-2006 7:24 AM
Reply to: Message 65 by EZscience
05-16-2006 7:09 AM


Re: More evidence of the Failure of Abstinence programs.
So you just flat out deny that sexual behavior has anything to do with the increase of STDs, and you think science will just deal with it no matter what people do.
Oh well. Watch it grow.
And yes, animals are unfortunately under the same curse humans are as a result of the Fall, poor things, they didn't deserve it.

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Message 68 of 306 (312350)
05-16-2006 8:25 AM
Reply to: Message 67 by EZscience
05-16-2006 7:45 AM


Re: More evidence of the Failure of Abstinence programs.
So you just flat out deny that sexual behavior has anything to do with the increase of STDs,
Not at all. I just think you're wasting time and money trying to change sexual behavior to the extent you expect to with abstinence. There is just too much biological force behind its expression.
Of course, exactly where the scientific view of life leads people: we're animals; we are at the mercy of our biological forces. This is a new idea on planet earth -- even the old pagans knew better. But Science is King even if it's only had that power for a couple hundred years if that, and knows it's right about everything.
The humble attitude would be to consider that even though you personally don't believe it and don't have a way to verify any of it, that those of us who believe in a supernatural realm and a universal supernatural Moral Law might know something you don't, and at least hold out the possibility that you are wrong and we right. You know, maybe at least a polite and humble "Well wait and see" instead of this certainty based on your science-defined philosophy of humanity.
Accepting that, we need to provide young people with useful info on how to protect themselves WHEN they decide to have sex. And that should be,a nd always will be, THEIR decision.
And what about those who don't accept that they have to be at the mercy of their biological forces? What about those who know that treating sex as an optional recreation that needs no guidance except their own "decision" (based on what criteria, one might ask, since they're being taught it's only a biological function and it's up to them what to do with it?) is a recipe for cultural disaster?
You have your philosophy all worked out on the basis of the Scientific View of Life and you admit of no alternatives. Science is right and nothing else could possibly apply. So those of us who see it differently just don't count, right? We're just wasting our breath trying to get across that there is a dimension to this about which the science mentality doesn't have a clue. Oh well, what else is new?
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poor things, they didn't deserve it.
And yet we human's do, don't we?
That is indeed what the God who made us has revealed to be the case, yes. I understand that Science knows nothing about it.
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Edited by Faith, : grammar and spelling corrections

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Message 72 of 306 (312427)
05-16-2006 12:03 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by EZscience
05-16-2006 9:19 AM


Science is getting too big for its britches
Yes, we are glorified animals - no evidence exists to the contrary.
The evidence is blatantly obvious. Look in the mirror. Science has simply promoted an institutionalized ignorance of what is obvious to any rational person and always was until Science got all full of itself in the last century.
But no, we are not at the mercy of our biological forces. That doesn’t follow and no one said that.
Oh yes you did. Your argument was that abstinence can't work because of the strong biological forces the young have to deal with.
Only that these forces will operate to influence the frequency of behaviors when viewed at the level of the population.
Well, if human beings are automatons OR animals, I suppose so. But the real cause will be the IDEA that they are automatons or animals and the refusal of society at large to inculcate and enforce moral rules as was done in saner times.
Abstinence is too extreme an approach to be an effective strategy for manipulating sexual behavior.
One only has to "manipulate" animals or automatons. Human beings are rational creatures who can think about the problem and respond to social standards and ideals. And again, abstinence is simply the OLD standard that has been abandoned. Nobody is saying you'll get perfect abstinence. The human race is a bunch of fallen sinners after all, but you did get a good measure of abstinence until the free for all mentality of the sixties got a foothold in the culture, now buttressed by this conceit called Science, which is apparently just another version of Political Correctness.
Faith writes:
Science is King . and knows it's right about everything.
Did I say that? Sure is true.
Science doesn’t ”know’. It’s simply a *process* for separating fact from fantasy. That’s all.
Oh hardly. When Science arrives at its Scientifically Processed Assessment of what is Fact versus Fantasy it then makes dogmatic pronouncements as if it *knows* them to be true, about for instance how abstinence won't work because of biological factors, and how "these forces will operate to influence the frequency of behaviors when viewed at the level of the population" and so on and so forth, and it further dogmatically pronounces all opposition ignorant, dangerous and the like, as "unnatural and distorted" for instance, as you say farther on. There isn't a shred of civility allowable from the Scientific Perspective. Science PRONOUNCES. It does posture as "knowing" and it condemns all opposition.
Faith writes:
maybe at least a polite and humble "Well wait and see"
Did I say that? Sure is wise.
How long are we supposed to ”wait and see’ if abstinence works. Faith?
That's not the point. "How long" is a distraction. The point is that you've made up your mind on "scientific grounds." You refuse to consider the position suggested at all. You are *certain" it is wrong. Your very question is just the impatience of your certainty. That's the point.
Faith writes:
. what about those who don't accept that they have to be at the mercy of their biological forces?
No one is at the mercy of their biological forces as an individual. That doesn’t mean that biological forces won’t shape the frequency of observed behaviors in the population.
OK, so the culture is at the mercy of biological forces. Same thing basically. I can't begin to say how depressing such language is -- this mechanistic language and concepts given us by Evolution, by Science. Everything human has been reduced to this trivializing bunk. It's a whole worldview that shapes thought, social philosophy, policy, but one can't even get that across.
Faith writes:
an optional recreation that needs no guidance except their own "decision"
Once again, you are putting words in my mouth. I never said the decision did not need guidance, only that teaching abstinence is a waste of time and money and actually deprives young people of useful information.
Based on your mechanistic Scientific worldview. And you said nothing about useful information, only that there's something fixed and immutable about the frequency of biological behaviors etc.
It derives from this unnatural, distorted, puritanical christian revulsion of sexuality and the impractical desire to see all manner of useful sex education eliminated from the schools.
Yes, another bit of Scientific Dogma there. We haven't even discussed the practicalities of sex education so you can drop that bit of misrepresentation. I haven't said a word on the subject of what should be taught in schools beyond the need to teach abstinence as a moral principle. To you any such idea is just "revulsion" it's not good sense, because Science, being amoral, decrees that kind of stuff. Having no moral perspective it imposes an amoral perspective.
Don’t talk about how sex works or how to do it safely. Just consider it taboo and off the menu until marriage. You will learn all you need to know then. Right?
I haven't said one word along these lines. YOu have no idea what I think about the hows involved. I'm not sure I do myself. I'm engaged here in arguing that the culture is going to hell in a handbasket because of the amoral attitude toward sex that is being taught in the schools as well as everywhere else, and HOW I would approach it myself I don't even know beyond this one point I'm making. Speaking of putting words in someone's mouth.
Faith writes:
Science is right and nothing else could possibly apply.
For the last time Faith, it is not a question of ”science’ itself being right or wrong.
For the last time, EZ, yes it is!. That IS how Science presents itself, as the Last Word, as the Arbiter of All Things, as The Measure of What's Right and True, and Judge and Executioner of anyone who doesn't have the scientific perspective. You guys need to listen to yourselves sometime.
Science is completely amoral - without moral implications.
Yes it is completely amoral but it does have moral implications for that very reason. It TEACHES amorality. It's a cop-out and a delusion to think otherwise.
It’s just a very effective technique for testing ideas. And abstinence isn't testing very well.
Whole worldview there. Wrong goals. Wrong standards. Wrong philosophy. Wrong perspective. "Testing" -- by science's standards, not by standards of humanity and sanity -- except as those might be scientifically defined I suppose. "Effective technique?" That's a scientific perspective. You talk indeed like you think in terms of raising animals, not human beings. That's the way scientists talk. Really. But it's like you don't see any other way of thinking too, so this is impossible to convey.
Faith writes:
So those of us who see it differently just don't count, right?
Once again, you are putting words in my mouth.
No, I am drawing the intelligent inference from your words, not putting anything in your mouth.
You can see it differntly and still count, but you have to make an actual, evidence-based case for the effectiveness of abstinence if you want to convince anyone you’re right about it working.
Ha ha ha. I can "still count" oh thank you King Science for your merciful allowance of the continuing existence of my humble self. As long as I do it the SCIENTIFIC way instead of a way I think better THEN I "still count." Ha ha. You guys are funny.
Otherwise its just another pie-in-the-sky, ”this how the world should be’, unrealistic ideal.
The only evidence-based case that could be made could only be made if it were seriously tried, and that can't happen because few believe in it. In other words it can't happen as long as Science Rules the thinking of everybody. It would require people solidly convinced of the moral perspective. Possibly in the alternative Christian schools I hope will become standard throughout the country. Certainly isn't going to happen in the public schools.
But it's not unrealistic at all. It's been the basic moral code for most societies in the world (of COURSE there are violations, don't even go there). The pie-in-the-sky, ”this how the world should be’, unrealistic ideal is this fatuous science-based approach to social problems.
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Message 77 of 306 (312534)
05-16-2006 5:10 PM
Reply to: Message 76 by EZscience
05-16-2006 1:30 PM


Re: Science is getting too big for its britches
Oh wow, I'm not up to answering all that right now. What a bunch of misconceptions is right. I'll just say this much, we inhabit two different universes. I don't think one word of what you said actually connected even minimally with anything of what I was saying.
When Science arrives at its Scientifically Processed Assessment of what is Fact versus Fantasy it then makes dogmatic pronouncements as if it *knows* them to be true
Once again, you are talking about science as an entity which it isn’t. You have to level that accusation at scientists.
You seem to completely miss that I'm talking about YOUR OWN LANGUAGE AND CONCEPTS, which are TYPICAL of Science talk {edit:-- that is, the worldview and attitude that are present in YOUR OWN WORDS -- that in fact apparently make it impossible for you to get one thing I said because you are so in the science box you can't process anything from outside it. Or something like that.}
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Message 79 of 306 (312611)
05-16-2006 9:29 PM
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05-16-2006 9:21 PM


Re: Science is getting too big for its britches
NWOAR yourself.

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Message 81 of 306 (312650)
05-17-2006 12:55 AM
Reply to: Message 80 by SuperNintendo Chalmers
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Couldn't tell educated by SNC
Most grade schoolers certainly have a better grasp of plain civility and correct debate than you. You seem to have a chronic inability to address the topic, preferring to go the cheap and low class route of personal attack. Didn't your mama teach you manners?
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Message 89 of 306 (312796)
05-17-2006 11:27 AM
Reply to: Message 85 by fallacycop
05-17-2006 10:41 AM


Re: MORALS
You are advocating that the government stay the course in a program that has been shown to hurt young people for the personal satisfaction of having your personal beliefs validated by said program paid by the taxpayers money. If you think you have the moral higher ground in that subject, think again.
Shown to hurt young people? Oh, you mean you teach them that abstinence is the right policy and they ignore you and your policy and have the problems you told them they'd avoid by practicing abstinence and that's "hurting young people?"
You guys are a riot.
As for what I advocate, I haven't advocated anything, I've been objecting to casting the problem in "scientific" as opposed to moral terms, and to the scientific mentality as such that deals with everything instrumentally and mechanically and ends up supporting an amoral position -- and to my mind actually inhumane. Perhaps this concern is too general for this thread. I think I'll consider starting a new thread on the subject, later today when I have more time.
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Edited by Faith, : to change "propose(d)" to "advocate(d)" and phrase ending "inhumane"

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Message 91 of 306 (312812)
05-17-2006 12:05 PM
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05-17-2006 12:00 PM


Re: MORALS
Why is it the end of the thread? It's not my thread. You can all still entertain and congratulate each other with your amoral instrumental proposals for saving youth from the mean people who would expose them to such an evil idea as abstinence.
I haven't thought through what I would advocate as a practical approach to the problems the thread addresses. All I know is that I hate the terms it is being discussed in here.

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