Ben
I'll make a few last points, aimed primarily at prophex, then bugger off...
Your encouraging someone to be brave and join you and others on self-determined journey. That you don't see problems with it but seem to suggest this is perfectly reasonable and well thought out - as if by saying so means its a given - doesn't change that fact its only your relative view.
You immediately however impose some rules and regs on what constitutes acceptable self-determining, ie: quickly revert to assumed absolute externals with words such as "wisdom" and "ridiculous" and "self-destructive". Like hippies in the 60's, who needed society to function in order to support them while they 'dropped out' from it, this self-determinism attaches itself to the very external moorings it debunks in order to have the luxury to express itself.
Me and my Colt 45, we're not seen as valid. That my illustrative 'self-determinism' is not of the intellectual variety which is the external boundary inside which your rules are shaped indicates that prophex is being invited, not to self-determine, but to join a club. Not self-determinism - but external determinism of different brand. Pseudo self-determinism in other words.
Self-determinism means what is says and all views are validated only by having the person concerned holding them. Self-determinism isn't validated by anothers agreement. And if you don't agree with me then...
Bang! - your dead.