Sex is amoral. From a fundamentalist's point of view,
...and
only from a fundamentalist point of view. I don't consider sex amoral.
Sex + monogamous marriage between a man and a woman = the basic family structure.
What about the family structure where the adults simply choose not to have kids, or are physically incapable due to infertility? Are they less of a family becuase of the lack of children?
What about the couples who choose not to
marry, but have kids and live together in the same way a married couple would? Are they less of a family becuase they aren't married?
Is the sex outside of marriage bad? No. Are the results of that sex bad? Yes. Premiscuous sex leads to pregnancy, STDs, and negative emotional issues IE guilt, anger etc. Sex within marriage just leads to pregnancy. Yes, there are emotional issues, but they aren't the same.
Promiscuous sex
doesn't lead to pregnancy if precautions are taken. STD's happen whether you are monogamous or not - just ask the folks who were infected with AIDS via blood transfusions. Marriage does not act as some magic anti-STD barrier, and neither does monogamy. As for guilt and nager - I'd like to see a single married couple that doesn't get mad at each other or feel guilty about something they did to their loved one every now and again.
Your implied assertion that somehow these things are solely the fault of promiscuity and that marriage is immune to the same things is rediculous.
And that is your opinion, and I have mine. We disagree. I know that telling people to have self control will benefit them in the long run.
Of course you tell people to have self-control. But that's not the issue here. The issue is sex ed, and the fundamentalist avoidance of letting kids know the truth about sex, STDs, contraception and protection, and the general risks of sex itself (whether married and monogamous or not). By opposing sex ed, and not teaching kids about such things, this idiotic mindset actually
causes pregnancy and STDs by not helping the kids make better choices. They are
going to have sex. You can't stop them. Just teach them the truth and help them protect themselves, and teen pregnancy rates and STD infections will decrease.
"Abstinance only" only works if the kids actually
practivce abstinance, and we KNOW that the majority won't.
Every time a fundy breaks the laws of thermodynamics, Schroedinger probably kills his cat.