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Author Topic:   Gay\transgender -- not by genetics, not by upbringing, not by choice
crashfrog
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Message 136 of 276 (661566)
05-07-2012 10:42 PM
Reply to: Message 124 by fearandloathing
05-07-2012 2:43 PM


Re: Just to clarify
Some people believe that GLBT people can be fixed, even if you have to use a Jesus stick to beat it out of them.
What's sick is that this is true. As well as the reverse - with the proper application of abuse, I could get you to swear off titties and love cocks for, like, the rest of your life.
The reason not to do this is not that it is ineffective to brainwash someone out of their nominal sexuality, but because it's incredibly corrosive to human dignity and personal sovereignty to sweepingly second-guess the decisions adults make for themselves after deep reflection.

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Taz
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Message 137 of 276 (661568)
05-08-2012 2:09 AM
Reply to: Message 135 by crashfrog
05-07-2012 10:32 PM


Re: Just to clarify
crashfrog writes:
What you are and how you act are the same thing
Is this for real?

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caffeine
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Message 138 of 276 (661572)
05-08-2012 3:54 AM
Reply to: Message 134 by Taz
05-07-2012 8:40 PM


Re: Just to clarify
Studies agree with my personal observation.
You assert this three times in this post, but as far as I can see from inexhaustive and unsystematic selection of studies posted to the thread so far, we have contradictory and inconclusive results. Some of them agreed with your personal observation, some flatly contradicted it.

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crashfrog
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Message 139 of 276 (661577)
05-08-2012 7:48 AM
Reply to: Message 137 by Taz
05-08-2012 2:09 AM


Re: Just to clarify
Is this for real?
Flat-out for real.
Funny to have to tell a cop this. Isn't someone who does criminal acts, by definition, a criminal? Or do you believe that someone just is a criminal, and the crimes follow naturally from that essence?
Gender essentialism is just as stupid as species essentialism, or for that matter, any other form of essentialism. What is this, 1850?

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Message 140 of 276 (661586)
05-08-2012 10:09 AM
Reply to: Message 135 by crashfrog
05-07-2012 10:32 PM


Re: Just to clarify
What you are and how you act are the same thing.
I dunno about that... wouldn't that mean that this guy is black:
If simply acting like a man makes her a man, then doesn't that kind of eliminate the need for the surgery?
Why surgically turn a man into a woman, if all he has to be a woman is to act like one?
Edited by Catholic Scientist, : re-worded last phrase to avoid confusion

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Taz
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Message 141 of 276 (661594)
05-08-2012 12:04 PM
Reply to: Message 139 by crashfrog
05-08-2012 7:48 AM


Re: Just to clarify
crashfrog writes:
Isn't someone who does criminal acts, by definition, a criminal?
Well, in this particular example, yes. But if I begin to act like a frenchman tomorrow, would that make me french? If I begin to bark like a dog and crawl on all 4, would that make me a dog?

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Taz
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Message 142 of 276 (661600)
05-08-2012 1:29 PM
Reply to: Message 138 by caffeine
05-08-2012 3:54 AM


Re: Just to clarify
I did a quick google search. All I did was typed in "study on happiness of gender reassignment". Here are the results.
https://www.google.com/...=84fc3fb1fec5f40d&biw=1676&bih=860
Edited by Taz, : No reason given.

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crashfrog
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Message 143 of 276 (661608)
05-08-2012 4:58 PM
Reply to: Message 140 by New Cat's Eye
05-08-2012 10:09 AM


Re: Just to clarify
I dunno about that... wouldn't that mean that this guy is black:
Why? Is he acting like a black person? I don't see it - I just see a guy acting like a douche. And guess what, he's a douche! Seems like it proves my point.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 144 of 276 (661612)
05-08-2012 5:38 PM
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05-08-2012 4:58 PM


Way to play dumb and dodge the point...
ABE: Hey wait:
Edited by Catholic Scientist, : see ABE

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Panda
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Message 145 of 276 (661648)
05-08-2012 10:54 PM
Reply to: Message 139 by crashfrog
05-08-2012 7:48 AM


Re: Just to clarify
CF writes:
Isn't someone who does criminal acts, by definition, a criminal?
Yes - because the definition of a criminal is "a person who has committed a criminal act".
But the definition of a male/female is not "a person that does masculine/feminine things".

Tradition and heritage are all dead people's baggage. Stop carrying it!

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caffeine
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Message 146 of 276 (661657)
05-09-2012 3:59 AM
Reply to: Message 142 by Taz
05-08-2012 1:29 PM


Re: Just to clarify
I did a quick google search. All I did was typed in "study on happiness of gender reassignment". Here are the results.
-->Error 404 (Not Found)!!1
I looked on pubmed for "quality of life" "sex reassignment", and the majority of articles on the first page of results (after which I got bored of looking) were broadly supportive of gender reassignment - I included the abstracts in Message 95.
What's more, I'm not sure how you looked at the Google results and decided that research supported your position, unless your results are very different to mine and/or you stopped at the first result. Try reading a bit further down the page and we're back with 'research is unclear'.
Edited by Adminnemooseus, : Changed code from MID to MIDT.

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Straggler
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Message 147 of 276 (662008)
05-11-2012 3:17 PM
Reply to: Message 111 by ringo
05-04-2012 3:36 PM


Re: Just to clarify
But how are you (or anyone else) being asked to do anything other than tolerate, accept or understand the "masquerade"...?
And why not do that in situations where the alternative is a degree of desperation that leads to the taking of one's own life?

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Straggler
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Message 148 of 276 (662010)
05-11-2012 3:20 PM
Reply to: Message 123 by onifre
05-05-2012 5:17 PM


Re: Just to clarify
If you want to suggest further investigation is necessary - I won't argue.
But until such questions are emphatically answered why deny people potentially life saving treatment because you have an ideological problem?

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crashfrog
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Message 149 of 276 (662018)
05-11-2012 3:57 PM
Reply to: Message 145 by Panda
05-08-2012 10:54 PM


Re: Just to clarify
But the definition of a male/female is not "a person that does masculine/feminine things".
That's exactly what it is. Gender is performative, its a set of traits that you evince; you are a certain gender because you perform a certain gender.
You might be thinking of sex, which refers to the specific configuration of your genitals.

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ringo
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Message 150 of 276 (662112)
05-12-2012 12:41 PM
Reply to: Message 135 by crashfrog
05-07-2012 10:32 PM


Re: Just to clarify
crashfrog writes:
...you're the one who appropriates the right to tell other people what surgeries they can have, regardless of the degree of reflection and assent from the medical community they may have achieved.
I've never suggested any such thing. I've said throughout the thread that people should get all of the help and encouragement they need, so they can be who they are and do what they want to do.
Edited by ringo, : Fixed quote.

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