Of course that means that people who naturally want to do what is right have no need to surrender or even have a need for God.
Personally, all of this seems a wild reach by you.
This statement of yours really doesn't make any sense when you are talking about a guy who said "deny yourself, take up your cross daily, and come after me" and "he who seeks to save his soul will lose it, but he who loses it for my sake will gain it to life eternal."
Sure, you're not giving up control of your life to obey EVCForum guidelines, because EVCForum is not your life. Christ, however, is exactly asking for control of your life. "Not everyone who says to me Lord, Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only those who do the will of my Father in heaven."
We're not talking about obeying a few rules at school or some guidelines on an internet web site. We are talking about God asking people to love him with all their strength, mind, soul, and heart.
And yes, when you have to follow commands for your whole life, you are giving up control of your life and surrendering in some sense. That is why the Christians are called disciples about 58 times in the Book of Acts, but only called believers once. They are primarily disciples, those who obey God.
"For this reason Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord of both the living and the dead."
Really, to suggest that God and Christ are not asking for surrender is to create a fantasy reading of the Bible. People do that all the time, but really, it's not very convincing.