Try to keep hatred out of our Constitution.

That's right, I hate gays, and I am a bigot, thank you.I guess that anyone who doesn't think like you falls into that category?

You mean by how you judge my acts I will be known.

Your actions include this statement: You have just defined all people who are against same sex marraige as being full of hate, and are bigots. You have voiced you judgement to everyone, which can be misleading since it just isn't true.Your actions have brought hatred against Christians.

That's your opinion also.

Sure, but not for everyone. over, and over? I don't see it that way. If I did, then I would be a bigot. Like putting gas in a diesel car. Yes, different. That is why they need there own set of rights, separate from one man, one woman. For their own protection, and ours.
example, when to men get divorced, and there is a child involved, who gets to be the mother? People who murder can be born that way too. Being born a certain way does not automatically give them a right to be that way. I am not comparing gays to murders, just expressing that being born a certain way doesn't give you right to anything, so you can't use that exuse. We are not all born that way. We are however all born human.I have many sexual preferences, should we make all of them legal binding contracts also? Why not, I was born that way?BTW, just to make it clear, I support jar and his opinion, I am not for the hatred, or bigotry.

I never said that.How can the same set of rules apply to 2 different things?No matter what happens between nationalities, there will always be differences. This does not make them unequal.One time I wanted to become a union sheet metal worker, I was denied because they said they were only hiring blacks.No matter how hard we try to make things equal, there will always be differences that require special rules to cater to those that need it, so that we may in fact be equal.So, I ask you, when to men get divorced, and there is a child involved, who is the mother?

I just did. No, I won't.It may be from ignorance, but it certainly isn't from hatred, or bigotry. But it is how I feel, and I am not ashamed. I have tried to come to some kind of resolution with it right here on these forums.I grew up around it, I have family who are, I was always taught that it was equal, but yet I don't feel that way. Apples just ain't oranges.Maybe if they found the gay gene, I might have a change of heart. That's a fact.The challenges that a man and a woman face in a marraige will never be the same as man and man, or woman and woman, that is a fact.If we are going to allow it, then we must allow any kind of marraige whatsoever, as long as all involved parties consent.So I wish to marry my whole block, because I love them, and I want them to have benefits. Isn't that obvious by all the difficulties our nation is having with it?

Obviously you haven't had the pleasure of experiencing our family court system first hand?I don't care what the rules are, the man just gets treated like shit.So the joke will be on our court system when to men enter the court room. I would pay to see that one.

I have, over and over. Which brings us to circle jerk.Just because you don't agree with me, or think I am wrong, doesn't make it hatred or bigotry.Your a pretty judgemental guy.By your topic titles you seem to be pointing fingers, similar to people on a pulpit telling me about my sin.

I am sorry dan, but unequal and different just aren't the same words.
I love my mother and father equally, but they are different. I never said I would outlaw it. I have changed enough through discussions in here that I would be willing to accept a civil union.I have also admitted from a religious standpoint, I feel they should allow it, because it is up to God to judge. I am having a hard time understanding it, I have open conversations with my gay friends about it. Well, I think that is just not fair for me then.
Because I did not get treated that way in my separation. I already gave Message 230 an answer.

I am explaining why there needs to be separate rules.

That is a bad comparison, it really doesn't apply.
Black people are born that way, it's a fact.We cannot prove the same for homosexuals, it's a choice.Even if I am wrong about that, there is no need for different schools for blacks and whites, they can all function in the same school. Let me rephrase that:
"Different" categories for the unions of heterosexuals and homosexuals are inherently different, but equal.