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Message 13 of 298 (315299)
05-26-2006 10:25 AM
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05-26-2006 10:20 AM


Re: On choosing to use the term hatred.
Oh dear, jar, this isn't about "offense" this is about truth and slandering your opponents instead of respecting them. You customarily go for the personal smear and that's all the term "hatred" is, a lowlife characterization of people you disagree with.

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Message 22 of 298 (315316)
05-26-2006 10:59 AM
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05-26-2006 9:22 AM


Your tactics are despicable.
The Christian Right has designated Sunday June 4th as a day when the attack on the Constitution and Civil Rights should be taken into the pulpits of their churches. Their cynical name for this attack in support of hatred is "Marriage Protection Sunday".
Trust you to find the most subjective slanderous terms for your opponents. "Attack on the Constitution and civil rights" and "hatred" and accusing them of cynicism is low demagoguery. Your opponents regard their concerns as support for the Constitution which you and others on the left are tearing apart, and their concerns are entirely for the protection of the meaning of marriage throughout history. Fairness obliges you to present their views objectively. But I don't think you know what the term means.
According to the US Federal Government itself, there are over 1000 statutes that use marriage to determine an individuals rights and benefits. The Senate is scheduled to discuss a bill to add an Amendment to the US Constitution denying all 1000+ benefits to gay and lesbian citizens of the US as well as any non-citizen gays and lesbians living in the US.
It is time for everyone, particularly Christians, to write their Senators and Representatives and show that the Christian Right cults do not speak for all Christians and that hatred and bigotry have no place in the US and certainly should not be part of our Constitution.
Your views are so far from Christian you aren't even a cult.
Your demagoguery is beyond disgusting. Hatred and bigotry? That's just your narrowminded subjectivist slander of your opponents. There's something so low about attacking what you impute to your opponents' inner life, making it up, daring to label what others feel as if you saw into their hearts and then daring to condemn it as if you were God, words can't capture it.
Again, these people you are slandering consider themselves to be defending the true meaning of the Constitution and the wellbeing of society, and the only right way of arguing your point with them is to start from that basic respect for their intelligence and their genuine good intentions.
Otherwise you are just contributing to the polarization of this country, ripping it apart, which is all the left has been doing for years now.
Your tactics are despicable.

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Message 24 of 298 (315323)
05-26-2006 11:17 AM
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05-26-2006 11:07 AM


Re: Your tactics are despicable.
I certainly hope and believe so.

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Message 31 of 298 (315334)
05-26-2006 11:53 AM
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05-26-2006 11:26 AM


Re: Your tactics are despicable.
Here, read what I just wrote on the thread about "Christian Nationalism"
http://EvC Forum: christian nationalism -->EvC Forum: christian nationalism
quote:
Freedom never meant that anyone could do what he liked. That is one way the idea is seriously distorted these days. It never meant having the right to demand some special status from the government, the right to force the majority to accord you a status you believe you should have, the right to anything more than protection of your life and liberty to live as you choose -- and even then, only within the criminal law and community standards.
When you get into demanding that the historic definition of marriage be altered to suit your tiny minority lifestyle and falsify its clear meaning over the millennia you have left the domain of natural rights and freedoms. Gay marriage by the way isn't even a specially Christian cause. It may be Christians who most feel the meaning of it in this day and age, but no society ever considered such a thing in the past, no pagan society, no other religion, nobody at all ever. It is insane to treat it as a right and freedom. Common sense ought to tell all you nonChristians this. But something is terribly twisted in the meaning of these fundamentals these days so that you get all up in arms against this enemy you've concocted, a false enemy of a false notion of rights and freedoms.
You are calling people bigots who are defending something as old as history and as broad as all cultures on earth in all times, that ought to be obvious and commonsensical to any sane person. How dare you. The idea of gay marriage and even of some special category called gay rights is a perversion of the very concept of rights and freedoms.
Marriage has a specific historic meaning of uniting heterosexuals, implying the possibility of children by that union, such that extending it to gays who can't produce children makes a travesty of it and violates it in its very essence.
You misuse, distort, twist, devalue, demean, trash, destroy, the very meaning of such terms as "basic human rights" and "equal protection under the law."
You are the intolerant one. Intolerant of all sanity and righteousness and common sense in what a healthy society and rational government require.

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Faith 
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Message 56 of 298 (315373)
05-26-2006 12:50 PM
Reply to: Message 32 by kuresu
05-26-2006 11:56 AM


You guys are so confused, so many of you, so many that the whole nation may come under the sway of your confusion and we'll just lose all the work of the great thinkers of the past. Sad.
general question, especially for Faith . . .
It is the religious right pushing the amendment, no? The religious right is a christian movement, no?
There are many besides Christians who support the amendment to prohibit gay marriage.
That would the imply forcing one's religous views on others, no?
No. This is the way so many people think nowadays, as if one's religious beliefs were to disenfranchise us from taking part in the life of the nation. This is the EXACT OPPOSITE of the meaning of religious freedom, specifically the first amendment. The original intent of our Constitution is twisted to mean exactly the opposite, and you state it so innocently, having learned it from people who have been malevolently turning it upside down for decades. The nation is surely doomed since so many now think in such twisted terms.
Does not the first amendment state that "congress shall make no law regarding the establishment of religion, or the free excercise thereof", right?
Yes, they are not allowed to stop us from exercising our religion in the public sphere. That's what that means.
Would defining marriage as it is in the bible (so that it is US law) not be violating the first amendment?
How utterly twisted. WE are the ones whose rights are protected by the First Amendment. WE are the ones who have supposedly been guaranteed the right to the free practise of our religion and the exercise of our religious principles in the body politic. You are turning it upside down and against the very people it was meant to protect, violating the actual intent of the amendment. How this twisted thing happened is a wonder to contemplate.
However, the definition of marriage does not require the Bible. It is as old as history and as broad as all cultures on earth. The Bible happens to define it clearly enough, and this nation is still predominantly Bible-believing enough, for it to be an important part of the argument against gay marriage, yes. And again, the First Amendment guarantees US the freedom to argue from the Bible.
What if it is their "religion" to practice homosexuality? Can you then deny them of their religion?
Oh don't be ridiculous. Think please. Nobody is saying they can't live as they please. What is argued is that they may not impose on the society a whole a NEW definition of marriagen that never before existed on earth, and that they are not entitled to special rights from the government.
Can you deny them the right to privacy? Can you deny them the right to property (I'm assuming that at least some of the 1000 statutes deal with property and taxes, and taxes are property)?
They have the same rights as everyone else in respect to those things.
Even though the Declaration of Independence is not the supreme law of the land, does it not have the statement "right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" (this statement being almost exactly copied from Locke (right to life, liberty, and property) (which is how we have the current understanding that Jefferson was talking about property). Again, do you have the right to restrict their rights to "happiness" or "property"?
This is that same crazy idea that by refusing to grant some brand new twisted definition of marriage we are interfering with somebody's constititional rights. This is insanity. I don't know how you can even think the thought with a straight face.
Are you willing to subjugate a people for your own "moral safety" or for their own "moral safety"?
Insane idea. Subjugate? This is sheer raving lunacy. And the left actually teaches this perversion.
Are you trying to protect the fabric of American culture? Are you willing to destroy unalienable rights and freedom to keep our culture? (By the way, I happen to think that those are the hallmarks of our culture)
You have a totally leftist perverted revisionist idea of what rights and freedoms have always meant in this culture. It is those who believe as you do who are taking away the true rights and freedoms the founders supposedly gave us, and substituting this false new definition. Out of ignorance mostly. Malevolence in some cases.
Finally, what is your reason for denying them?
The trashing of the idea of marriage. Destroying its meaning for future generations. Making a travesty of it. Forcing people who are offended by homosexuality to support it as if it were a normal way of life.

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Faith 
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Message 99 of 298 (315479)
05-26-2006 7:03 PM
Reply to: Message 96 by SuperNintendo Chalmers
05-26-2006 3:50 PM


Re: Missing the crucial point
Ok, for the last time, this is a total red herring. No one is trying to redefine marriage. Every marriage is unique and defined by the participants.
No, marriage is not an individual thing, it's a cultural thing, it's something the whole culture participates in in a sense. If it didn't there would be no need for marriage at all because it is to define a couple within the culture.
No one is trying to do ANYTHING to YOUR marriage
This is not about individual marriages. This isn't about YOUR marriage or anybody's marriage. This is about the meaning of a cultural institution.

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Message 101 of 298 (315483)
05-26-2006 7:34 PM
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05-26-2006 7:10 PM


Re: Missing the crucial point
The meaning of a cultural institution is determined by the culture. A constitutional amendment will be about as effective as King Canute trying to hold back the tide.
Effective at what?
Do you really think that those who are in favor of gay marriage outnumber those who aren't?

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Message 109 of 298 (315686)
05-27-2006 9:57 PM
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05-27-2006 9:22 PM


Re: Marriage Rights
studies on the suitability of same-sex couples as adoptive parents and no serious issues have ever been found.
So much for the relevance of "studies."

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Message 111 of 298 (315702)
05-28-2006 12:02 AM
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05-27-2006 10:39 PM


Re: Marriage Rights
Your image of me is really funny. Wild imagination there. And such emotional excess in response to your own invention there too.
Such research obviously is only as good as its definitions, which are only as good as the ability of the researchers to conceptualize what they are looking for. Education can't give one that ability. And why would scientists have any special native ability to be able to do this anyway? More likely they have less, judging by the complete inability of those of the scientific persuasion to understand the first thing anybody on the other side of the divide has to say at EvC for instance. I've seen some really laughable definitions of "fundamentalism" for instance.

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Message 121 of 298 (315774)
05-28-2006 12:16 PM
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05-28-2006 8:31 AM


Re: Your tactics are despicable.
Faith writes:
Trust you to find the most subjective slanderous terms for your opponents.
Schraf writes:
Faith, don't you continually call people who advocate for gay marriage "crazy"?
No, I believe I've called the policy crazy, not the people, and in any case it's a generic term, unlike imputing an actual emotion to a person. When you attribute "hate" to somebody that's a slam on the person of the lowest kind, and has nothing to do with the ideas we are discussing. Edit: What makes it so despicable is that it is false, there is no hatrede involved, it just functions to deny the reasons for objecting to gay marriage. Just demagoguery, an appeal to emotion, hatred of this supposed hatred, which is just a big fat lie, and discredits the argument without even addressing it. Really despicable this PC formula and how everybody buys into it.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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Message 128 of 298 (316081)
05-29-2006 7:33 PM
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05-29-2006 9:36 AM


Re: On choosing to use the term hatred.
Well, TL, I'm very tempted to answer your opponents for you, but I'd really rather see your answer. I certainly agree with you on this one, though I'm hardly on your side on many things you've said.

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Message 135 of 298 (316169)
05-30-2006 3:09 AM
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05-30-2006 3:05 AM


Re: I am perfectly willing to discuss the issue unemotionally with those who also wis
What are you going to do when Christians absolutely refuse to obey laws forcing them to accept homosexuals* in their churches and communities?
Edit: * That is, unrepentant, practicing homosexuals. Repentant homosexuals struggling with it for the sake of Christ are as welcome as all repentant sinners struggling with sin.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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Message 137 of 298 (316171)
05-30-2006 3:14 AM
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05-29-2006 12:30 PM


Re: On choosing to use the term hatred.
But why else do you reject homosexuality if not through disgust and fear of homosexual behavior?
Homosexual behavior is sin, and Christians are to put ALL sin out of our lives, of whatever kind. Those who consider themselves homosexuals unable to change, if they are willing to put all homosexual behavior out of their lives, are always welcome in Christian communities.

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Message 138 of 298 (316172)
05-30-2006 3:24 AM
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Re: On choosing to use the term hatred.
Homophobia is a purely political category. It doesn't exist. The term originated in psychoanalysis in the case histories of some kinds of paranoia if I recall correctly, and was never applied to normal people until along came the Marxist inspired Gay Liberationists and made it part of their propaganda campaign, and now it's regurgitated PC cant.
Or, if you want, let's say it exists in normal people. In which case it is a normal reaction to a perverted condition.
Homosexuals often can't help it. There is no Christian hatred of people who find themselves with such feelings. But they are no different from anybody else with strong proclivities to various sins. If they want to practice them that's their business, but they have no right to make the rest of us call it good, right, or normal.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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Message 141 of 298 (316175)
05-30-2006 3:38 AM
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Re: On choosing to use the term hatred.
Sorry, but sin is sin and those groups deny Christ who say it isn't. As I said, if people want to practice their sin that's their business, but no genuine Christian group should be required to accept them.
Tolerance always meant to put up with, to be kind to, but it always implied disagreement, or what would be the point of the term anyway? We tolerate those we disagree with. That's civilized. Being forced to accept views we disagree with is what is uncivilized.
Edit: We are being asked to agree with the current PC cant that homosexuality is normal, right and good, and what's intolerant is the attitude that calls us haters because we will not agree with this.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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