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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
iano writes:
Iano, you'd save everyone a lot of time, and take up less space in these threads if you simply made your point rather than pursueing these teacher-student style Q&A. Assuming you don't purport to revert to some absolute source of 'rights' could you tell me from whence, other than your own country, these human rights are to be derived?the source for morals could be manyfold, not, as i guess you are trying to suggest, merely from the bible. iano writes:
Doesn't it seem sad that the 'default' starting position is one where people, good, loving, produtive. law abiding people are treated as second class citizens?
If your country says that is what they are you are entitled to object and to try and change them (for your country gives you this right too). iano writes:
A dissappointingly idiotic response from you. Uncharacteristic.
Sure, why not fight for the rights for a mother to marry her son - or even all her sons? Get it over and done with I say so we can all move on.
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
Not sure that has anything to do with Same sex marriages.
ABE{ Would it be ok to marry my roommate if she was female? it seems so. So is you problem with marriages of convenience or same sex unions?} Edited by Creavolution, : added point
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
iano writes:
and what is motivating this pro-amendment stance? Does the motivation of a pro amendment position have anything to do with the people who will really be affected by this? (i.e. those who wish to marry). I feel that is the issue. I have a friend in the UK getting married to his partner this summer. Why should it be that they would not see the same financial benefits (for instance) from devoting their lives to each other than any other couple? If one of them should Die, is it not fair that the other should be entitled to be named 'spouse' for this like pension payments etc? but pro the amendment they feel supports their preferred scenario The problem is that the while anti amendment stance seeks to INCLUDE all preferred scenarios (i.e you can still have your hetero marriage, you can live by your beliefs in this regard), the Pro amendment stance seeks to EXCLUDE those who do not agree.
iano writes:
I would agree. It should not be restricted to a hetero relationship.
The request seems to hinge on re-defining what marriage entails iano writes: If we re-define this word should we not considering re-defining all words if they are found to exclude certain members of the population..doctors.. dictionary.com writes: A person, especially a physician, dentist, or veterinarian, trained in the healing arts and licensed to practice. certainly.. If the word "doctor" was defined as:
alternative dictionary.com writes: A heterosexual person, especially a physician, dentist, or veterinarian, trained in the healing arts and licensed to practice. then yes.. it should be changed, as the sexuality of the person has no bearing on their ability to fulfil the responsibilities of the position.
iano writes:
A bit pointless really as a mother and son will already be considered a 'family' for most purposes. Do you see any essential difference between a mother and son who want to get married so as to get the protection of the law and two gay people who want to get married to get protection of the law. In terms of rights..? But essentially I'm not sure I agree with any kind of tax/healthcare/pension breaks for different people (I'm not an economist so maybe there are other reasons for this.But for instance. If I live with my partner (male or female) and we are in a loving relationship, but do not marry. Why should We be treated any different to my neighbours who are in a relationship but are married?
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
I would agree.. It seems to me that to offer incentives to be married discriminates against "common law" couples.
Would you extend this to tax breaks for families with children?
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
CS writes: My point is that me and my roomate shouldn't be allowed to reap the benefits of marriage if we have no intention of anything but said reaping. what has this got to do with gay marriage? this could just as equally happen with a straight couple.
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
RiverRat writes: when to men get divorced, and there is a child involved, who gets to be the mother? what? isn't the question simply 'who gets custody?' (answer: the most stable suitable partner)or is it your view that the mother should always get custody of children in such a situation? regardless of her suitability? Edited by Creavolution, : forgot to put in quote..
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
I see nothing whatsoever to back up that assertion other than your own suspicion.
Why on earth would I want to be leaglly married to my room mate? that's ridiculous, the cons far outweigh the pros,what if we fell out would he get half my possesions? what If I began seeing a girl? could he divorce me for adultery and take all my possessions? "marriages of convenience" occur in with hetero couples, there is no reason whatsoever to think it would be any more or less likely with same sex couples.
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
riverat writes: So the joke will be on our court system when to men enter the court room. I would pay to see that one. so.. I don't see the problem then. you have not explained why it's necessary that someone "Be the mother" in a child custody case.
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
riverrat writes:
But you haven't done this. I am explaining why there needs to be separate rules.why does a custody case for a child imply there needs to be different rules, the child will go with the most suitable parent/guardian regardless of sex/sexuality
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
you'd love seattle...
sorry OT... carry on...
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Heathen Member (Idle past 1313 days) Posts: 1067 From: Brizzle Joined: |
riverrat writes:
absolute crap. can you back this up in the slightest?
We cannot prove the same for homosexuals, it's a choice. riverrat writes:
oh.. I see you can't. consider that point ignored/invalid
Even if I am wrong about that,... riverrat writes:
what differences should there be? "Different" categories for the unions of heterosexuals and homosexuals are inherently different, but equal.no public displays of affection? no children at the wedding? separate rooms at hotels?
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