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roxrkool
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Message 17 of 174 (685848)
12-27-2012 4:36 PM
Reply to: Message 16 by onifre
12-27-2012 4:04 PM


Re: Fine, here's some real advice...sort of.
A voice of reason.

Also, maybe read this: 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

There may be some relevant parts in there. For example:

"What, so you're saying that I can't get girls like that unless I have a nice job and make lots of money?"

No, your brain jumps to that conclusion so you have an excuse to write off everyone who rejects you by thinking that they're just being shallow and selfish. I'm asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don't say that you're a nice guy -- that's the bare minimum. Pretty girls have guys being nice to them 36 times a day. The patient is bleeding in the street. Do you know how to operate or not?

"Well, I'm not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!"

I'm sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don't have, then back the fuck away from the patient. There's a witty, handsome guy with a promising career ready to step in and operate.


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roxrkool
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Message 31 of 174 (686104)
12-28-2012 11:48 PM
Reply to: Message 26 by 1.61803
12-28-2012 9:50 AM


Re: Fine, here's some real advice...sort of.
Watching that video was emotionally conflicting.

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roxrkool
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Message 160 of 174 (709776)
10-29-2013 10:16 PM
Reply to: Message 151 by New Cat's Eye
10-28-2013 12:44 PM


Yes!
I honestly don't know why you needed to say what you did, but hopefully he is smart enough to listen to you.

Seriously. There is a woman/man for everyone. Just be a good person and put yourself out into the world where you can be seen and heard.


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