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jaywill
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Message 181 of 573 (583045)
09-24-2010 12:41 PM
Reply to: Message 173 by Theodoric
09-23-2010 11:50 PM


Re: My marriage isn't real?
Since I was vasectomized before my marriage and there is no chance for procreation, then in your eyes my marriage is not valid?
I also had a vasectomy, only after some years of marriage.
No, I do not think that in any way invalidates your marriage. I think it is a temptation to want to push a procreation view of marriage's purpose to an extreme to score some preceived logical point.
There are exeptions to marriages procreating. And I don't think the general purpose is invalidated by these exceptions.
Think of it this way. Even though you had no children, still your successful marraige acted as a model to others. You had the environment in which raising a child was most normal.
So, no, I do not for a moment think having children is a mandatory obligation of a married couple.
You are sounding like a self-righteous condescending asshole. Since I cannot father children with my wife I shouldn't enjoy the joys of marriage? I shouldn't have been allowed to marry?
This is an inflamatory comment which surpises me coming from you. I get to considering that certain posters make quite cogent arguments that require my serious consideration without them having to to resort to the argots of the street.
Since you artificially attempted to push me into some fanatical and extreme view that your marriage is not valid, the criticism is moot.
I'll just move on.
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jaywill
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Message 182 of 573 (583052)
09-24-2010 1:06 PM
Reply to: Message 179 by jar
09-24-2010 9:51 AM


You are though at a serious disadvantage when trying to debate someone like me, and a great example of the hurdle you face is that you use the Recovery Bible.
When is this "serious disadvantage" suppose to hit me like a ton of bricks in all its stark realism ?
I sense no "serious disadvantage". Are you sure you're not mistaking yourself for the person you want to be ?
As for the Recovery Version being the product of those weak in faith. Who do you know personally as a contributer to its publication?
Have your spent time with those people ? Have you personally witnessed that those involved with the RcV publication are weak in faith ?
Give me some names.
By the way, you can also get an RcV without any footnotes.
And I could use and occasionally do resort to other English translations.
The Recovery Bible is a creation for those of very weak faith and no critical thinking skills, a Bible that has more commentary telling the reader what the passage really means then is in the original passage.
You'er doing a pretty good marketing job for the RcV. Keep it up. Some people are bound to get curious and go take a look for themselves.
The Holy Bible Recovery Version
You're a good boy jar.
I understand that. Almost 400 years ago the Chapter of Club Christian I belong to tried to impose one version of the Bible as the Authorized Version. It did not work then and will not work today.
Impose? Anybody has a right to recommend in their marketing a good English version.
Scoffield, New American Standard, NIV, Amplified Bible,
New English translations come and go. Anyone has the right to include Commentary and Footnotes. Or in the case of the RcV provide a version with no commentaries. I have both.
Bluster. Hot air. Where is the substance ?
Your chapter of Cub Christian may hold one set of beliefs. Another chapter of Club Christian though very much disagrees with those beliefs. What you are trying to market is YOUR chapter of Club Christian's set of bylaws as though they were the bylaws for all of Club Christian.
Present your alternative interpretation if you have one.
By the way. I don't see much commentar in the RcV on Mark 10:6-9 in the Footnoted version of the RcV. I'm afraid that you'll have to blame the comments I made mostly on my own analysis.
There is no footnote at all for verses 6 and 7 in my RcV.
I very much would favor more truth in advertising.
Perhaps you could begin by telling everyone that YOUR chapter of Club Christian considers homosexuality as a sin but that you now understand that some chapters of Club Christian do not see same sex couples in a committed relationship as a sin.
Would you like a statement of faith ? I thought most of the regulars gathered by now that I regard the Bible as the inspired word of God and Jesus Christ as God incarnate.
And being in a "chapter" of a certain "Christian Club" does not in and of itself mean what one expounds cannot be good interpretation of the Bible.
The Christian Club card doesn't work on me jar. You can spam the phrase up there 100 times if you like.
Stop trying to market your product as anything more than the bylaws of YOUR chapter of Club Christian.
I didn't ask you to buy anything. Nor did I say I was an official spokesman for a certain group.
Here's my interpetation of Mark 10:6-9 . If you find a weakness with it, point it out.
I think you cannot, so you are erecting a army of red herring arguments.
What God ordained was a marriage of one man with one woman. Show me in your version of the Bible, whatever it may be, why you find fault with that interpretation.
And you are welcomed to have another view from what I have.
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jar
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Message 183 of 573 (583060)
09-24-2010 1:29 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by jaywill
09-24-2010 1:06 PM


jaywill writes:
Here's my interpetation of Mark 10:6-9 . If you find a weakness with it, point it out.
I think you cannot, so you are erecting a army of red herring arguments.
What God ordained was a marriage of one man with one woman. Show me in your version of the Bible, whatever it may be, why you find fault with that interpretation.
What the author of Mark 10 is discussing is not marriage, it is Divorce. It is the author of Mark pointing out his views on Divorce, not marriage, using Jesus as the speaking character.
quote:
Divorce
1Jesus then left that place and went into the region of Judea and across the Jordan. Again crowds of people came to him, and as was his custom, he taught them.
2Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?"
3"What did Moses command you?" he replied.
4They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away."
5"It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law," Jesus replied. 6"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 7'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. 9Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
10When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. 11He answered, "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery."
It is also yet another example of morality changing with the times, morality evolving.
The material attributed to Moses, according to the Bible, was given to Moses by God herself. Yet here is an example of a later version changing what supposedly God prescribed into something proscribed.
The passage itself has far more to do with commitment and fidelity than with male-female. At the time it was written the only social marriage contract in practice IN THAT community was marriage between a man and woman.
The passage deals with long term commitment; that once a contract is made the parties should try to fulfill that contract.
It is about divorce. not marriage.
Taking the one short mention of man and woman out of the context of the whole passage is a best, misleading.
If God has joined together a man and a man or a woman and a woman in a long term committed monogamous relationship, I imagine God will smile upon it and rejoice in their bond.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jaywill
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Message 184 of 573 (583091)
09-24-2010 2:39 PM
Reply to: Message 183 by jar
09-24-2010 1:29 PM


It is also yet another example of morality changing with the times, morality evolving.
I don't see relativistic morality. I see Moses making accomodations for the divorce seeking Israelites because of thier hardness of heart.
Does the divine wish that a man and woman not divorce change? Is it now God's heart that there should be infidelity and divorce? No.
So don't see a relativistic eroding or evolving of the standard of morality ordained by God. As one commentator put it "Divorce belongs to man. Marriage without divorce belongs to God." His standard has not changed.
I don't think this is good example to argue for moral relativism.
The material attributed to Moses, according to the Bible, was given to Moses by God herself. Yet here is an example of a later version changing what supposedly God prescribed into something proscribed.
This is really another discussion I think. But if I were an Israelite woman I would be absolutely appreciative that Moses made this accomodation.
A divorce woman had to go back to her family. Generally speaking she was not in great social shape. Now if some wishy washy husband decided that on a particular lonely night he wanted his divorced wife to come home again, this amendment made that impossible.
It like this: The authorities of Israel could say to the fickle husband "Oh no Mr. If you sent your wife away in divorce you have to give her a certificate. And that certificate is her defense against you, on any given lonely evening, insisting that she come home to you again. The certificate proves that gone is gone. She does NOT have to come back to your house."
I would take this as God's love and care for many of jilted Hebrew woman. And the hard hearted man cannot yo-yo the woman back again and again at whim.
But my focus has been on the gay marriage matter.
The passage itself has far more to do with commitment and fidelity than with male-female. At the time it was written the only social marriage contract in practice IN THAT community was marriage between a man and woman.
I will agree with you and Ringo that the specifics of the conversation was around marriage and divorce. That was the main subject matter.
But as a by product, Christ touched on the creation of male and female for the cause of yoking together in marriage.
It does not make sense to me that the Triune God would create them male and female yet ordain that in marriage two males become one flesh and/ or two females yoke together as one flesh.
The coupling that God sanctioned from the beginning of creation was the uniting of a man with a woman. The discussion may have been prompted by a question on divorce. The details of Christ's reply reveal God's purpose in making them male and female - ie. to couple the opposite sexes together in marriage.
The passage deals with long term commitment; that once a contract is made the parties should try to fulfill that contract.
It is about divorce. not marriage.
This portion is about marriage - "But from the beginning of creation, He made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leve his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife. And the two shall be one flesh. So then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has yoked together, let man not separate."
What has God yoked togther that man is not to separate:
1.) The joining of a man with his father ?
2.) The joining of a man with his mother?
3.) The joining of a man with another man ?
4.) The joining of a woman with another woman?
5.) The joining of a man with a beast ?
6.) The joinig of a man with a tree ?
7.) The joining of one male man with one female woman, to start a new family unit ?
I choose # 7.
Taking the one short mention of man and woman out of the context of the whole passage is a best, misleading.
Trying to find ground anywhere in that passage for the yoking of a man with man or a woman with a woman is misleading.
If God has joined together a man and a man or a woman and a woman in a long term committed monogamous relationship, I imagine God will smile upon it and rejoice in their bond.
If man invents an experiement to try to improve upon God's ordination I think not only God will frown upon it. But eventually humans will also frown upon it.
Gays right now are too happy. But let some social experimentation take place. Then gay marriage will be followed by painful gay divorces. Who gets the cat? Who gets the car. This was the WRONG partner, etc. etc. All the heartachs that the heterosexuals have gone through in thier divorces will become the headaches of the gay experimentors.
Now God surely looks down and loves all men and woman. God desires all men to be saved and to come to the full knowledge of the truth. His smile may be related to that fact that Jesus Christ has also died for them upon the cross for their salvation.
He is the Friend of Sinners - straight and gay, heterosexual and homsexual. I think His smile is upon creatures who He created and longs to reconcile.
He does not smile on our sins and our rebellious experiments against nature and nature's God.
That's the way I see it. You can have a different opinion.
If reading this passage makes a single person rather fearful of getting married. Then he has rightly understood the passage. It should put a sober fear in the single man.
But this is also not the last word in the Bible. And provisions for errors, transgressions, mistakes, sins, offenses, are also dealt with in God's full salvation. Forgiveness can be had for our many many failures.
That's the experience of my "Christian Club" anyway. We have people from all walks of life, and yes some who have the gay orientation too. We have divorcees too.
We just need to come to Christ just as we are and confess our need for Him and His saving work.
"If we confess our sins He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. And the blood of Jesus Christ God's Son cleanses us from every sin."
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ringo
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Message 185 of 573 (583094)
09-24-2010 2:54 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by jaywill
09-24-2010 2:39 PM


jaywill writes:
What has God yoked togther that man is not to separate:
1.) The joining of a man with his father ?
2.) The joining of a man with his mother?
3.) The joining of a man with another man ?
4.) The joining of a woman with another woman?
5.) The joining of a man with a beast ?
6.) The joinig of a man with a tree ?
7.) The joining of one male man with one female woman, to start a new family unit ?
I choose # 7.
It's interesting that you flogged the word "consensual" to death and now you've abandoned it completely. Let's forget about #5 and #6, shall we?
Ignoring them, I choose "all of the above". I think Jesus made it clear that all humans should be yoked together in one way or another. The Jew and also the Greek, the Samaritan, the publican and the sinner are all our neighbours.
I have yet to see you show any Biblical backing for prohibiting committed relationships of any kind.

"It appears that many of you turn to Hebrew to escape the English...." -- Joseppi

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Message 186 of 573 (583095)
09-24-2010 2:54 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by jaywill
09-24-2010 2:39 PM


Exceptions to the rule?
Is divorce acceptable to God if:
1. Abuse - You're in an abusive marriage with no signs of the abuse subsiding?
2. Abandonment - Your spouse walks out the door and never comes back. Are you supposed to wait until the day you die?

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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jar
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Message 187 of 573 (583099)
09-24-2010 3:06 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by jaywill
09-24-2010 2:39 PM


How can you say that you do not see morality evolving? I posted the passage, did you not read it?
The author of Mark has the character speaking as Jesus redefine the laws.
It clearly says that the laws Moses presented were meant of the people of Moses day and that now the rules were changing.
We live today.
Morality has evolved since Jesus time. Today, things that were certainly moral back then are considered immoral and things that were considered immoral, an abomination even, are considered moral.
The passage though is NOT about marriage and divorce, it is about divorce, just divorce. It is saying that commitments like marriage should be long term and stable. A long term stable same sex commitment is certainly acceptable in the eyes of GOD according to my chapter of Club Christian.
The point, as it relates to this topic is that yes, many of the writers (particularly the authors of the new testament) considered homosexuality a sin.
If YOUR particular chapter of Club Christian agrees with that position, then the reasonable course is for YOUR chapter of Club Christian to abstain from homosexual practices.
That however, is totally irrelevant to the issue of same sex marriage other then the very narrow position that YOUR chapter of Club Christian is free to not perform same sex marriages.
Whether or not it is a sin is NONE of your business. That is something to be determined by God should there be a judgment.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Theodoric
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Message 188 of 573 (583104)
09-24-2010 3:36 PM
Reply to: Message 181 by jaywill
09-24-2010 12:41 PM


Re: My marriage isn't real?
You seem to want it both ways.
Lets look back at the conversation.
Message 148
Ringo writes:
He didn't prohibit any other kind. He had no reason to prohibit same-sex marriage unless sex and marriage are only for procreation.
Though you quote this in your response you refuse to address it.
Message 151
Ringo brings it up again in
Message 154
In
Message 157
jaywill writes:
Marriage and sex being for procreation I don't think insists that enjoyment and pleasure must not be had in the relationship.
Acknowledging that you believe marriage and sex are for procreation. Therefore you say that your god is against same sex marriage because marriage is for procreation. You said it, you are saying that RIngo is corect that that is what your god intended.
Now you claim a heterosexual union that can not result in children is ok, because they are some sort of model. Does you head hurt when you try to manipulate and twist your arguments in order to make them work?
Did your god make marriage and sex only for procreation? If so, your stand on heterosexual unions that cannot or do not result in children is warped and hypocritical. If not then what is the basis for your god supposedly condemning homosexual relationships?
This is an inflamatory comment which surpises me coming from you.
No it is a natural understanding of your line of argument. Don't you see that this is where your argument leads?
So, no, I do not for a moment think having children is a mandatory obligation of a married couple.
That is not what your previous arguments implied.
Think of it this way. Even though you had no children, still your successful marraige acted as a model to others. You had the environment in which raising a child was most normal.
How do you know this? Because I am heterosexual?
What about dysfunctional families? An abusive parent is better than a homosexual parent? The hoops you jump through to justify yourself is mind boggling.
Since you artificially attempted to push me into some fanatical and extreme view that your marriage is not valid, the criticism is moot.
Not at all. It is the natural progression of the argument you are making against homosexual unions.

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

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jaywill
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Message 189 of 573 (583107)
09-24-2010 4:11 PM
Reply to: Message 188 by Theodoric
09-24-2010 3:36 PM


Re: My marriage isn't real?
Theodoric,
Of the five or six people who are talking to me, i am going for now put you on the lower priority. I will be ignoring you in favor of some other posters.
And here are the reasons why:
1.) You called me an a******(explicit deleted). I count that as a violation to Rule #10.
2.) I sense that you are going back over posts attempting to assign positions to me and put words into my mouth.
On this second point, part of this is just a matter of having to go back over convoluted exchanges,to reconstruct patterns of thought.
Call it lack of sophistication if you wish. But my dialogue with you is becomming too much having to research how and why certain words were found in my posts.
I think one argument at a time is better. You guys are ganging up on me. Not that multiple disagreements is not fair. But keeping it simple and tracable is better for me. I think going back over links in a "But You said, you said, you said, you said" is not necessary and can be misleading.
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Message 190 of 573 (583108)
09-24-2010 4:14 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by jaywill
09-24-2010 2:39 PM


Does the divine wish that a man and woman not divorce change? Is it now God's heart that there should be infidelity and divorce? No.
Deuteronomy 22:13
If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her....
Deuteronomy 24:1-2
When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
from http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/says_about/divorce.html

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jaywill
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Message 191 of 573 (583113)
09-24-2010 4:41 PM
Reply to: Message 190 by frako
09-24-2010 4:14 PM


Deuteronomy 22:13
If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her....
Frako,
This is saying "IF this situation should happen ..."
That is not a declaration of God "I WANT THIS situtation to happen ...."
This is a provision for man's failure. There are plenty of them, thank God. Provisions for man's failure do not express God's intention. This is remedy applied to the weak party that fell.
Deuteronomy 24:1-2
When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
This is the same as above "WHEN this unfortunate situation happens opposed to the perfect will of God, THIS is the PROVISION made for that problem ..."
This is not God saying, "Now, this is what I planned, I want you men to go out and get divorced you see? Because that's the plan"
Thank God this is a provision saying "NOW WHEN YOU BLOW IT as some of you are sure to do, THIS is what I want you to do."
This is REMEDIAL provision for man's inevitable failures due to his sin nature from the fall.
THAT'S WHY WE NEED THE SAVIOR JESUS ! This is what the Bible really means in Mark's Gospel, even in chapter 10.
"By works of the law shall no flesh be justified."
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jaywill
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Message 192 of 573 (583114)
09-24-2010 4:52 PM


The whole Old Testament was called by Paul "The ministry of condemnation". He called the new covenant the ministry of righteousness and the ministry of the Spirit. Righeousness there meaning Christ Himself as man's righteousnesss for justification.
There is a lot of condemnation in the law of Moses. That includes man's handling of marriage too.
Condemnation is not the end goal of the 66 books of the bible but salvation in the grace of God.
We do not pretend that God did not condemn what is condemned. It is better to acknowledge it and come forward to Him for redemption and salvation.
IMO, it is futile to try to make the case "But God wants male on male marriage."
The other approach some use is "You have not really shown explicitly God is NOT for homosexual marriage. Jesus nor the OT mentions the word "gay". Gotcha!" (as an example of arguing on a semantic technicality)
It is better to agree with God on what He condemned and receive grace and redemption. I am sorry, but that is so much an intergral part of the scheme of the Bible, I can't avoid it.
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Theodoric
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Message 193 of 573 (583120)
09-24-2010 5:42 PM
Reply to: Message 189 by jaywill
09-24-2010 4:11 PM


The question is simple
Did your god make marriage and sex only for procreation?
If so, your stand on heterosexual unions that cannot or do not result in children is warped and hypocritical. If not then what is the basis for your god supposedly condemning homosexual relationships?
1.) You called me an asshole. (I count that as a violation to Rule #10.)
No. I said your arguments are making you sound like one. They are offensive arguments.
2.) I sense that you are going back over posts attempting to assign positions to me and put words into my mouth.
As you can see by the exchange I posted, I did not. Can you answer the simple question at the beginning of this post?
You need to take responsibility for the arguments you put forward.

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

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jaywill
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Message 194 of 573 (583168)
09-25-2010 7:16 AM
Reply to: Message 174 by ringo
09-24-2010 1:17 AM


Not so beautiful dreamers
We know what you think. We can also see that your opinion is not supported by the Bible.
This "We" sounds like the party line. Jar implied that I was the only one with a "Club" here.
I don't "refuse" to see anything. I don't see homosexuality there because it isn't there.
That is strange. Its not innovative or refreshingly original. It is just strange that you would think that. In passing I am going to keep my eye out on how many non-Christian rabbis wrote commentaries on Genesis 19 who did not see homosexuality there.
Lot offered his daughters to the men of Sodom. Lot didn't think the men of Sodom were homosexuals.
Lot entertained some hope that their reasoning was not totally destroyed by their lustful cravings. He held to some inkling of hope that they would take the natural use of the female as opposed to their unnatural demand. (NO, I do not mean that rape is natural ).
He found that it was no use. They were totally given over to their craving for a men to rape. This may be why Paul wrote that God had given them up and their minds could no longer be approved by God.
The collective bonding together in a unified effort was like the building of the Tower of Babel. Thier corporate sin had to be judged. This was more serious then an individual act here or there. This was a concerted rebellion of a society against nature and nature's God.
I don't know about you. But I would seek God's mercy to be saved from being swept away in a powerful collective revolt like this.
If he did, he could have offered himself. I'll take Lot's opinion above yours.
The twistedness of this kind of reasoning is hard for me to imagine. What appeared to Lot to be acting less "wickedly" was for the mob to have the two woman.
"And he said, Please, my brothers, do not act so wickedly.
I have here two daughters who have not known a man. Please, let me bring them out to you, and do with them as is fitting ..."
Since Jude says that the Sodomites went after "different flesh" (Jude 7) Lot must have thought he could appease them by offering them what was more natural and familiar, females. (NO, I am not saying that rape is natural).
Jude however, goes on to say:
" How Sodom and Gamorrah ... these gave themselves over to fornication and went afte different flesh ... these dreamers also defile the flesh and despise lordship and revile dignitites".
They were "dreamers" . Their imaginations had run away with them. Thier make believe, their play acting had reached a perverted stage of corruption. It was like there was no going back to normality.
They were going to be set aside as an example by the righteous Creator God.
I certainly can and so can everybody here. The story didn't need homosexuality fifty years ago and it still doesn't need it today. Seeing homosexuality in the story completely misses the point of the story.
This also sounds like some "party line". Who is "everybody here"? Do you mean that the staff of the Webstite of course sees no homosexuality in Genesis 19 ?
If you mean "everybody" arguing with me at the moment, I can understand that perhaps. Maybe I'm not the only one in a "Club" huh ?
Lot offered his daughters. It doesn't take a hardened will or closed eyes to understand what that meant. It just talkes a working brain.
And I notice that you're still ignoring my point about commitment.
My brain is working. But I take into account Peter's words on Sodom, Jude's words on Sodom, Leviticus's words on same sex unions, Paul's words in Romans chapter one, and other passages.
The skeptic has to slice and dice the revelation of the Bible to separate the parts so that they do not have anything to do with each other.
This is the skeptics desperation to "kill the beast". That is to cut the word of God into pieces to destroy the unity, to destroy the life. That is to "Divide and Conquer" ..... Cut the thing into pieces and seperate them far from one another.
Then there is some inkling of a chance you can read Genesis 19 and homosexuality is nowhere to be found. I very much doubt your reasonings so far.
As for commitment, I have no comment. I sympathize with people who have good intentions. However, the saying is true "The road to hell is paved with good intentions."
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Message 195 of 573 (583192)
09-25-2010 10:02 AM
Reply to: Message 194 by jaywill
09-25-2010 7:16 AM


Did your god make marriage and sex only for procreation?
It really is a simple question.
There are only two possible answers; yes or no.

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

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