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riVeRraT
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Message 49 of 183 (410009)
07-12-2007 7:06 PM
Reply to: Message 35 by PaulK
07-12-2007 2:22 AM


Being oppressed, or brainwashed is much different than being in denial, don't you think?

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riVeRraT
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Message 50 of 183 (410010)
07-12-2007 7:09 PM
Reply to: Message 38 by Legend
07-12-2007 7:24 AM


Re: so what?
If I was dying an agonizing, painful death then, yes, I probably would ask for mercy/forgiveness/whatever.
What would that prove, other than the fact that I'd be desparate ?
That brings up a whole other discussion, of just who needs God and when.
With all our current technology we are embraced by, it becomes more difficult to believe in a God, since we don't need Him.
But in the end, when all the technology in the world won't help, the tide is turned.

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riVeRraT
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Message 51 of 183 (410012)
07-12-2007 7:16 PM
Reply to: Message 44 by Taz
07-12-2007 11:25 AM


Re: Not at all sure of any reasoning here.
I'm sorry, I just don't think you're a good parent... or a community leader.
Thanks pal love you too!
Shit you act like you know me or something.
I'm the atheist here and you guys are the christians. You're suppose to be better than me, not the other way around.
WOW dude, just wow.
You'll have to explain why any Christian is supposed to be better than anyone else, and then you'll have to explain just how it is that you are better than any of us.
I'm really sorry, everytime I see one of you talk about god, I just can't get past all the BS that I see you guys do and say about other people who have never done you any harm.
It's simple then, stop looking to us to find God.
And plenty of gay people have done me harm, fortunately, thanks to my God, I forgave them. If it wasn't for that, I might head of the gay bashing committee or something. Thanks to God, that I am tolerant of gay marriage now.
God has met me where I am at. You might be past that point or whatever, but it seems to me, that you are filled with anger, and many more flaws, that all could use some working on.
You can come down off your pedestal now, cause I am sick of looking up your skirt and seeing dirty underwear.

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riVeRraT
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Message 58 of 183 (410113)
07-13-2007 9:27 AM
Reply to: Message 54 by Taz
07-12-2007 7:59 PM


Re: Not at all sure of any reasoning here.
I wonder... how many times a week do you remind people that even though you tolerate gay marriage you think homosexuality is a sin?
Please, let's not drag this thread into the homosexuality thing, but it is clear that you do not understand me, or get me at all, so you need to stop pretending.
I never said homosexuality is a sin.
I said the bible says it is a sin, and I consider it a sin for myself.
I have always said that sin is a relative term, and the sinner knows whether he is sinning or not. I do not need to convict/condemn anyone, the Holy Spirit will do that.
I also so not look to the bible as a moral guideline, if I did, then I am definitely going to hell.
Look, it's probably unfair that I'm picking on you like this,
You are not picking on me. You are unfairly blaming me for everything you hate about most "Christians". It's called prejudice.
I just want you to realize that everytime you try to get us (me) to believe in god, I just can't look past the fact that the evidence clearly shows that believing in god does nothing to make people more tolerant of their fellow men.
I am not trying to get anyone to believe in God, I am only sharing my experiences, and hopefully enlighting many of the things I myself had misconceptions about, as many of the people here have done for me.
I will be happy when the day comes, that it is no longer you vs me, but us, just talking together.
Demonstrate to us that there are actually honest to goodness benefits to believing in god, especially benefits that will help better our society.
I don't know if I can show that or not. Many of the benefits are "unseen." and not provable. Even Jesus said in the bible that He did not come to make peace, but that what He was teaching would cause separation between brothers and sisters even.
No matter what I do there will be believers, and unbelievers.
Even if there was no such thing as "God" we would still find a way to not get along.
There is too much "stuff" that we carry, that will get in the way. I have had visions of what our entrance to heaven will be like, when we loose all that stuff, and we are standing "naked" before the Lord. It is then that we will realize just how similar we are, and how the world made us into what we were.
I know this vision doesn't help you at all, so all I can do for now, is to try hard, like yourself, to get along with everyone. I really have no enemies.
Hey, I change my underwear everyday.
It was just a comical statement, because you get up in the morning and take a crap in the toilet like the rest of us.

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riVeRraT
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Message 59 of 183 (410114)
07-13-2007 9:33 AM
Reply to: Message 31 by NosyNed
07-11-2007 7:58 PM


Re: Why explore?
What is worth wondering about is what is it in the way our brain works that makes it so easy for a large number of individuals to fall into the delusion about Odin, Zeus et. al.?
That is why I say we were created to worship. It seems like a natural thing for us to do. Until we get hurt by it, or our current logical way of thinking, leads us away from it.
I also often wonder about gods like Zeus, and just how many people of the time, actually believed in it. It may have been just a tool used by government to control the people. Believe or be put to death.
Now that we have a separation of church and state, we can believe on our own free will. Surely there is a difference between the two.

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Message 60 of 183 (410115)
07-13-2007 9:37 AM
Reply to: Message 32 by anastasia
07-11-2007 8:16 PM


Re: Not at all sure of any reasoning here.
I am sorry for your suffering. The only thing I can say I am sure about is that human nature is extremely inconsistant. If people can reject God during life, why not at the end, when they feel like it hasn't been worth it?
Thank you.
I wondered about people who commit suicide, and surely they must have rejected the thought of a god right until the end. But then there is that moment, after you've sliced your wrists, that you still have a conscience thought, that you could have changed your mind.
Even people who pull the trigger, may have a split second to second guess their decision.
Only an atheist who doesn't see it coming, would not have a chance to think about it.

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riVeRraT
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Message 61 of 183 (410118)
07-13-2007 9:59 AM
Reply to: Message 16 by PaulK
07-11-2007 6:33 PM


After reading what Percy wrote, and thinking about how you quoted me, it is unfair to cut and paste only part of the premise.
I clearly indicated that it is possible for people to not know God in their hearts, because the world doesn't let them.
ABE, I also indicated, that it is just a belief.
Edited by riVeRraT, : No reason given.

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riVeRraT
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Message 62 of 183 (410120)
07-13-2007 10:13 AM
Reply to: Message 47 by anastasia
07-12-2007 5:39 PM


Re: Created to Worship
2 for 2.
Well put again.

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riVeRraT
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Message 64 of 183 (410123)
07-13-2007 10:25 AM
Reply to: Message 52 by iceage
07-12-2007 7:28 PM


Re: Created to Worship
Let's let RiverRat or others respond to that.
The bible clearly and unequivocally states that salvation is only through Jesus and only by being born again. If a good Muslim dies without accepting Jesus then they are hell bound per scripture. Hey what is that I just heard... oh ya a chorus's of Amens!
Anastasia put it well.
Having the Holy Spirit in us, means that we do know right from wrong. The temple is us, and we do not need to go to a temple to experience God.
I don't think it matters how you interpret it. I have met many atheist, and Muslims, who are more "Christian" than "christians."
Look at jar's definition of believing in Jesus, and you can start to see what I am talking about.
I don't think it is so black and white that we can even argue about it. Believing in God, and doing what is right is a relative thing, and subjective to each individual and where they are at in life.
What right to I or any other person on earth to say that anyone is going to hell? Why because the bible says so?
The bible says Jesus came to save, not to judge, and we are to be like Him. So if people think that anything is a sin, they should only be worried about themselves, and whether they should be sinning or not. Not a single one of us can ever be like Jesus, and if Jesus didn't condemn people, then why should we?
Before pointing out the speck in your brothers eye, remove the plank from yours,
he who is without sin, throw the first stone.
Why don't people get this stuff, it's so simple.
I fully understand why Jesus said, when you know the truth, the truth will set you free.
I don't want to judge you or taz, but it seems to me, like the truth is hidden from you sight.
Don't take that wrong, because I know the more of the truth is hidden from my own sight as well.
If we are created to worship God (as Riverrat believes), and the God described in the Bible is the one true vision of God, then there would be a detectable tendency for people when approaching God to align their worshiping impulses towards the core beliefs described in the Bible such as a triune Godhead, the necessity for water baptism, the nature of the Holy Spirit, or second coming. There would also be a steady defection from counterfeit religions. There would be a detectable core agreement on a set of Godly principles.
That's just not so.
Jesus said the children will go to heaven, and they haven't a clue of any of that stuff.

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riVeRraT
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Message 65 of 183 (410125)
07-13-2007 10:33 AM
Reply to: Message 56 by PaulK
07-13-2007 2:13 AM


Well I certainly wasn't "oppressed" or "brainwashed" into atheism. I was raised in a Christian family, my father is a lay preacher (and still taking services even though he's nearly 80). His father was a minister. You can' blame college either since I left the church before going there, when I was facing the prospect of Confirmation. So no, if there was any social pressure on me it was in the other direction.
Is this supposed to mean that your family or church taught you correctly? That they even get it? (not trying to put your family down)
Or does it mean, you were smart enough, and innocent enough at the time (and probably closer to God than all of them) to realize, that it wasn't God that rules those peoples lives?
It's not about social pressure, it is about the truth, and what we must go through to realize it.
I realized myself at a very young age (8) the church was BS. I was agnostic for the next 30 years.
I can clearly see now why God created evil, without it, it seems we could never really know good.

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riVeRraT
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Message 66 of 183 (410126)
07-13-2007 10:39 AM
Reply to: Message 57 by Percy
07-13-2007 7:07 AM


Re: Not at all sure of any reasoning here.
In other words, Taz looks at Christians like yourself and sees the hatred (e.g., toward gays) and intolerance (e.g., only born-again Christians go to heaven) and ignorance (e.g., Genesis should be taught instead of evolution), and he concludes that if that is what evangelical Christianity does to people, he wants no part of it.
The fact the taz thinks that about me, just shows how little he has actually read my posts. It only shows his (probably righteous) anger towards other christians, and not myself.
It shows him to be prejudice, and the person who nominated him as well.
You might as well throw both into the category of haters, and bigots.
Seems like the bible is correct when it says, remove the plank out of your own eye before pointing out the speck in your brothers eye.
That post, is probably one of the worst posts (top 50) I have ever read in this forum, it confuses me (not really) how it could have ever been nominated.
If evangelical Christianity were actually a religion of love and tolerance and openness,
It is not, but Jesus's way is.
That you apparently believe this says much about you, and confirms what Taz has said.
You have no right to say that. I am not going to go into my personal life on this one, because I know for a fact that it will go no where.
Instead you should be embracing the fact that I said I forgave them.
shame on you.
Let me rephrase this for you so that you understand what people actually hear when you say things like this: "God has met me where I am at, so I am at peace with myself when I vote for people who favor anti-gay legislation. I feel God's love when I tell people they won't go to heaven unless they accept my God. I'm doing the Lord's work when I vote for school board members who will substitute my religious beliefs for science in public schools. God finds his pleasure in me, and so if you are filled with anger at my actions then that is a flaw within yourself, God loves me, and you who are alienated from God's love because you have cut yourself off from him will suffer the consequences of your evil decision."
You are just as bad as taz.
You know nothing.

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riVeRraT
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Message 69 of 183 (410132)
07-13-2007 10:52 AM
Reply to: Message 67 by PaulK
07-13-2007 10:46 AM


What does "correctly" mean in this context ? What are you asking for ? They certainly didn't pressure me into thinking that God didn't exist. Nor did Sunday school. Nor the after-church youth group meetings.
I am sorry, I should have asked you why you choose not to believe.
It happened because I NEVER had this inner knowledge of God you refer to.
Hopefully it will be revealed to you one day. I know you don't want to hear that, but I say it humbly. I think it is being revealed to you as we speak.
What's so important about "knowing good" in that sense ? And how much evil is needed for that ? Can you really argue that every bit of evil in the world is necessary just for "knowing good" ?
How can one appreciate the light, until they have experienced the dark?
Surely the longer you stay in the dark, the more you appreciate the light.
Some of us need to stay in the dark longer than others. For me it is a long time, and continues to this day.
Sorry, this is the best way I know how to explain it.

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riVeRraT
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Message 91 of 183 (410320)
07-14-2007 10:48 AM
Reply to: Message 70 by PaulK
07-13-2007 10:59 AM


OK, I didn't choose not to believe. As I said I came to the realsiation that there was nothing there. No basis for beleif. I came to realise that I'd just taken it for granted and when I knew that I knew that I didn't believe any longer.
I understand, and what Jesus asks is that you make a leap of faith. Which I understand is a huge problem here in this forum. It was for me too.
Being on your death bed, facing non-existence anymore, is a trigger to make a leap of faith.
For me, it was life, the birth of my first child that started me down a 13 year journey, until I finally felt what I believe is the Holy Spirit, and now I feel like I have a basis for belief, other than just plain faith.
As far as evil goes, it is a relative term. Many children think school is evil, until they grow up, and see how important it really was.

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riVeRraT
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Message 92 of 183 (410321)
07-14-2007 10:52 AM
Reply to: Message 71 by jar
07-13-2007 11:12 AM


Re: Created to Worship
Why can't people be like Jesus?
I was talking about all the time, not just once and a while.
The whole message of Jesus is to show what plain old humans can do.
I agree jar, but if you believe in what Jesus did, then you should be believing in the Holy Spirit as well, and not need an explanation as to what it is.
I'm sorry, but just what is that based on? The Knowledge of Right and Wrong is the gift from the Garden of Eden, it has nothing to do with the Holy Spirit.
And what does any of that have to do with the question in the OP?
The Holy Spirit convicts us when we do wrong, unless, as I pointed out, that we are deceived by the world into thinking we were right. But on your death bed, you tend to drop the ideas of this world, and your mind is clearer, and probably closer to God, and the error of your ways will be made noticeable to you.
Is one way it could happen. This is not an absolute.

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riVeRraT
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Message 94 of 183 (410323)
07-14-2007 11:02 AM
Reply to: Message 72 by Percy
07-13-2007 11:21 AM


Re: Not at all sure of any reasoning here.
You're saying that evangelical Christianity is not a religion of love and tolerance? You're saying that it doesn't follow Jesus?
Any evangelical Christians reading this out there?
It is supposed to be, but it is not.
The only thing that is of love and tolerance, are people.
Yours is an inherently bigoted attitude. You're wronged by a gay, you therefore conclude all gays are bad. This type of thinking is the cause of discrimination and racism.
No, I said I could have been like that, but I wasn't. Good thing I was strong when those things happened to me, or I might have been prejudice my entire life.
Why, how Christian of you and your holier-than-thou attitude!
Yes, I know thanks!
Except for one thing, I forgave these people before I was a "christian."
Thank you for judging! Please judge again soon!
I am not judging, just pointing out facts. And you are not hard on me, just not getting what I am saying, because of your predisposition about me.

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