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Dr Adequate
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Message 386 of 759 (702004)
06-28-2013 7:11 PM
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06-28-2013 6:48 PM


Re: Supreme Court punts
This is THE authoritative construction of California law, proponents have the right to assert the state's interest.
In California. But I don't see how that affects the Supreme Court.
Take a parallel instance. Suppose the state of Georgia (for example) amended its Constitution to do away with the requirements for standing altogether. Would the Supreme Court then be bound to agree that anyone at all from Georgia has locus standi before the S.C? No. Georgia can change its own Constitution all it likes, it doesn't affect federal law.

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Message 393 of 759 (702072)
06-30-2013 4:01 PM
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06-29-2013 1:31 PM


Re: Supreme Court punts
OK, that's fairly convincing.

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Message 421 of 759 (702592)
07-10-2013 1:17 AM
Reply to: Message 419 by Faith
07-09-2013 11:49 PM


Re: It's A Long Road.
But how loved is the ACLU nevertheless. I do find it hard to believe that we've come to such a pass that such unmitigated evils are regarded as good ...
We came to that pass on December 15th 1791.

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Message 430 of 759 (702606)
07-10-2013 4:01 AM
Reply to: Message 428 by Faith
07-10-2013 3:38 AM


Re: It's A Long Road.
"Ones with whom we vehemently disagree" at one time might have included opinions about forms of church services, different denominations, or who should be President, or different political platforms ...
... or the right to own slaves, or the desirability of joining the Klan, or the inferiority of Jews, or the exciting political program of the Nazi Party ...
Freedom of speech has always been guaranteed to bad people, this is not just some hip new trend invented by those long-haired young people with their newfangled i-peds and nubile phones.
As for child molesters:
In the mid-1880s, the median legal age of consent in the United States was ten. Over the following decade, the median legal age of consent rose to fourteen; by 1885 it was sixteen or older in twenty-two states. Resistance to raising the age of consent was strongest in the South, where opponents argued that such laws might "enable negro girls to sue white men" and sought to exempt girls who were not of "previously chaste character," with the understanding that few black women or girls would be presumed "previously chaste" by white male juries. Georgia did not raise the age of consent from ten to fourteen until 1918.
Got that? It used to be legal to say that it was a good idea to have sex with a ten-year-old girl, and then to have sex with a ten-year-old girl. A century later, it's still legal to say it but not to do it, and you regard this freedom of speech as a novelty that presages the End Times.
---
You came out with similar ill-informed nonsense about gun control, too, didn't you? Those cannot remember the past are doomed to talk crap about it, as George Santayana would have said had he been more plain-spoken.
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Message 448 of 759 (702678)
07-10-2013 7:02 PM
Reply to: Message 446 by Faith
07-10-2013 6:24 PM


You want my advice? My advice would be that you can live together if you want but you shouldn't try to impose your situation on the rest of society by demanding that your living situation be treated as a marriage.
Why not? My wife and I imposed our situation on the rest of society by demanding that our living situation be treated as a marriage (or "got married", as people with less time on their hands than you would put it) and no-one complained. Every year, 4.6 million Americans impose their situation on the rest of society by demanding that their living situation be treated as a marriage. So why shouldn't yenmor and his boyfriend? How would two more people imposing their situation on the rest of society by demanding that their living situation be treated as a marriage make any difference?
If it's just because they're gay, then perhaps you could come up with some specific arguments against gay impositionofone'ssituationontherestofsocietybydemandingthatone'slivingsituationbetreatedasamarriage. Or perhaps not.

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Message 450 of 759 (702681)
07-10-2013 7:27 PM
Reply to: Message 446 by Faith
07-10-2013 6:24 PM


I believe children need a stable traditional family with heterosexual parents so I don't think gays should have children at all. I also understand that there is evidence children raised by gays tend to be depressed, which makes sense to me.
But the data shows the exact opposite, as yenmor just pointed out (I was going to post those links).
So in the interests of the children you should be in favor of gay people raising kids --- indeed, you should be campaigning for gay couples to be given preferential treatment when it comes to adoption, for the sake of the children. Why "stack the deck" against them by dooming them to being raised by one of those statistically substandard heterosexual families? That's assuming that you give a damn about the children, and weren't just looking for any desperate excuse to discriminate against gay people. Perish the thought.
Even if the whole society says it's OK a child is going to know there's something wrong with the situation.
Obviously not. Superstitions have to be inculcated, or they perish. If no-one communicated the idea that breaking a mirror brings seven years' bad luck, then the next generation wouldn't believe it, it would hardly be likely to arise spontaneously.

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Message 464 of 759 (702706)
07-11-2013 12:22 AM
Reply to: Message 458 by Faith
07-10-2013 10:07 PM


Re: Pointy Sticks
Is pedophilia a "sexual orientation" that shouldn't matter to us? Dr. A posted something that suggests he thinks so.
Liar.

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Message 465 of 759 (702707)
07-11-2013 12:36 AM
Reply to: Message 455 by Faith
07-10-2013 9:44 PM


Yes that is what I meant, they would just know it's wrong even if the whole society conspired to tell them otherwise. As soon as they know something about how babies are made they will know it whether they are allowed to honestly recognize it or not.
Er ... but the children of gay couples do not in fact "just know it's wrong". What they generally know is that it's fine and that the only problem is the existence of bigoted jerks, who are wrong. If you're going to appeal to what the children "just know", then what they "just know" is that you should STFU.
"Sexual orientation" is a very recent euphemism for what was always regarded by all societies until quite recently as an aberration, something abnormal ...
As something unusual, perhaps, like having red hair. Not all societies have regarded it as wrong.
And just to answer the nonsense about how a couple calling themselves married doesn't affect the rest of us, our individual marriages and all that craziness, that's not the point and has never been the point.
Why isn't that the point? It seems like a very good point.
The point is how a whole society defines marriage and that's what changes.
Why is that the point?
Of all inconsequential things, the definition of a word is perhaps the least consequential. If there's a bunch of loving couples that want to get married, and the only objection is that it will create a one-off small piece of extra labor for lexicographers, then that's not much of an objection.
Marriage has been recognized by all societies in all times as between a man and a woman ...
I can think of exceptions. For example, consider the time popularly known as "now" and the societies of Holland, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway, Sweden, Portugal, Iceland, Argentina, France, Uruguay, New Zealand ...
Nero as far as I know was the only one who married some gay people.
Yes, well, if you were more widely known, then "as far as Faith knows" would have a good chance of becoming a colloquialism for untruth.
History of same-sex unions.
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Dr Adequate
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Message 466 of 759 (702708)
07-11-2013 12:39 AM
Reply to: Message 456 by Faith
07-10-2013 9:48 PM


There are statistics that say otherwise.
Though on this thread these supposed statistics don't seem to be saying anything. So all the data that anyone's been bothered to actually produce says one thing --- and our old friend Faith, who practically makes a hobby of being wrong, says another. Hmm, what to believe?

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Dr Adequate
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Message 467 of 759 (702709)
07-11-2013 1:41 AM
Reply to: Message 455 by Faith
07-10-2013 9:44 PM


Redefinition ...
The Religious Right must live in a state of permanent shock.
---
RR1: Look! Look over there! Some fiends are doing something ghastly to a word!
RR2: Which word? Your eyesight is better than mine.
RR1: I think it's ... yes, yes, it's "plant".
RR2: A fine, upstanding word. What a tragedy that it should fall into enemy hands. What are they doing to it?
RR1: I hardly know how to break it to you ... they're ... they're redefining it.
RR2: OH MY GOD!
RR1: I know, it's brutal. They're taking the part of its definition that says it includes fungi and they're cutting it off. Without anesthetic!
RR2: How awful! How tragic!
RR1: All societies have always defined plants as including fungi ...
RR2: Is that actually true?
RR1: So far as I know. Remember how we talked about how you shouldn't ask questions like that?
RR2: Oh, sorry.
RR1: And now the forces of evil have redefined it. It would have been more humane just to have shot it in the head.
RR2: The ... head?
RR1: The letter p.
RR2: The poor innocent word!
RR1: Say, I know what'll cheer us up ... let's go and lynch us some queers.
RR2: Is that ... is that OK?
RR1: Sure, why not? They're only people.
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Dr Adequate
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Message 484 of 759 (702727)
07-11-2013 4:04 AM
Reply to: Message 480 by Faith
07-11-2013 2:59 AM


Re: Pointy Sticks
No, heterosexuals are the only ones QUALIFIED to be married, so of course I didn't mean I advocate their not being married because of STDs. I also don't mean that homosexuals shouldn't marry for that reason, the reason is that they are not qualified to be married because they are not capable of having children.
And, of course, all heterosexual marriages should be forcibly dissolved after menopause.

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Dr Adequate
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Message 485 of 759 (702728)
07-11-2013 4:06 AM
Reply to: Message 446 by Faith
07-10-2013 6:24 PM


Faith, when she thought there might be statistics supporting her views, writes:
I also understand that there is evidence children raised by gays tend to be depressed, which makes sense to me.
Faith, after realizing that there aren't, writes:
Statistics can be made to prove anything. Getting into statistics is only going to prolong this already tedious thread.
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Dr Adequate
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Message 486 of 759 (702729)
07-11-2013 4:10 AM
Reply to: Message 482 by Faith
07-11-2013 3:30 AM


Re: Pointy Sticks
Where did I say "FERTILITY" was the qualification for marriage? I said the potential to have children.
I was going to say something, but I don't really need to add anything to that, do I?
And if you don't see this as intuitively obviously implied in the history of marriage in all cultures ...
That turned out to be one of those subjects on which you're not actually an expert, remember?

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Message 540 of 759 (702850)
07-11-2013 8:42 PM
Reply to: Message 487 by Faith
07-11-2013 4:16 AM


Re: Pointy Sticks
No, it has nothing to do with menopause because it has nothing to do with fertility. It has to do with the anatomic potential to make babies, which heterosexual couples have irrespective of whether they are fertile or not ...
Would you say that a woman who's had a hysterectomy has "the anatomical potential to make babies"? If so, why?
... and homosexuals don't. but of course anything you can do to obscure the point you will do.
The reason I didn't immediately grasp your "point" is that it's so recondite and stupid that I couldn't imagine anyone making it. Really, why on Earth should that be the point? Not whether they're going to have children, not whether they can have children, but the precise nature of the cause of their inability to have children?
Why in the world should that be a basis for making a decision?

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Dr Adequate
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Message 542 of 759 (702852)
07-11-2013 8:59 PM
Reply to: Message 541 by Faith
07-11-2013 8:48 PM


Re: Pointy Sticks
It's the principle of the thing, fact that men and women together can make babies unless they aren't fertile.
But why should that be "the principle of the thing"?
You wish to treat differently a heterosexual couple who can't make babies and a homosexual couple who can't make babies, on the basis of the precise reason why they can't make babies. Why? It seems to be an utterly unimportant distinction.
If you issued a driver's license to one blind person but not to another, I'd be surprised. If you then explained: "Ah, the difference is anatomical, the one I rejected was blind because he had no eyes", then I'd think this was a poor basis to make a distinction between them.
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One in 5000 women is born with Mllerian agenesis, an anatomical inability to conceive. They are clearly not "designed" to have babies. Should they be permitted to marry?
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