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riVeRraT Member (Idle past 445 days) Posts: 5788 From: NY USA Joined: |
I see your point, it is the way I thought for years.
But when I say changed from when you are born, it is in the sense, that we were created to be a certain way in Gods eyes. This includes your growth in this world. anything that takes you away from the goodness of God is going to alter your path. Heck, anything that takes you away from goodness, even if you don't believe in God is not good for you, wouldn't you agree? That is proven in life, and not a mind game created by a church. Its the devil convincing you that the church is trying to do those things to you. Irony at its best, kind of comical. P.S. I am not saying all churches are good, because I believe that about 80% of them aren't.
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lfen Member (Idle past 4707 days) Posts: 2189 From: Oregon Joined: |
we were created to be a certain way in Gods eyes. This includes your growth in this world. anything that takes you away from the goodness of God is going to alter your path. If God created us to be a certain way how then could we be otherwise?How we are must be how God wants us to be. What is this "you" that can be away from the goodness of God? How can anything take this path away from the path that God wants? lfen
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purpledawn Member (Idle past 3487 days) Posts: 4453 From: Indiana Joined: |
quote:I try to stay away from absolutes. I'm not ammune to making the same mistake twice. Let me show you a real life situation of mine and see if you can understand me a bit better. My first husband was an alcoholic. We were married four years. I was in my early twenties and not really equiped to handle the situation. We went to clergy for help. The situation escalated after our daughter was born. I'm not an enabler, so I didn't hide his condition from his friends. It was mostly verbal abuse, but eventually he became dangerous to me and my daughter. That's when we left. (He didn't physically abuse me, but when someone starts punching holes in the wall next to my head, I don't hang around.) He had a problem. I understood that. He didn't want the responsibility of a wife a child. He couldn't handle it. We only aggravated his problem. I don't look at that situation as something someone did to me. I made an unwise choice when I married him. That's where I make the mental note of the mistake I made and try not to make the same mistake again. My current husband and I have been married for 20 years, he adopted my daughter and has been a wonderful father. We are a perfect fit. Now yes my first marriage changed my behavior, I did some growing up. I learn from everything I do. I learned from my mistakes in that marriage, which makes me a better wife now. I forgave my first husband. He sought help several years ago and has been sober since. He has never married again. His personality is not conducive to responsibility. He can take care of himself and that is it. He didn't intentionally become an alcoholic. Like I said I don't live in my past. Life is too short. Now I have a cousin who stole from my family. I have forgiven him, but I won't trust him again. That he would have to earn. Just because I have forgiven him, doesn't mean I am blind to his nature. When you leave your car unlocked and it gets stolen, you may forgive the thief, but hopefully you do start locking your cars so they don't get stolen again. Is that an oath? To me it is a lesson learned. Our experiences in life will always change us. That's what makes us who we are. I wouldn't want to undo any of my experiences (well maybe the one where I was almost dead). If I did I wouldn't be the same person. My experiences are what enable me to help others.The woman dealing with an alcoholic husband. The co-worker dealing with a dying father. The young girl who talks of commiting suicide. Dealing with a strong willed child. I am a very positive and optimistic person, which considering what I have been through, people are amazed. A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
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riVeRraT Member (Idle past 445 days) Posts: 5788 From: NY USA Joined: |
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This message has been edited by riVeRraT, 11-01-2004 07:44 AM
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riVeRraT Member (Idle past 445 days) Posts: 5788 From: NY USA Joined: |
Hehe. It started with the tree of knowledge. God created us to be a certain way, that included having free will. Without being able to choose bad, we would have no free will.
This is obviously true.
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riVeRraT Member (Idle past 445 days) Posts: 5788 From: NY USA Joined: |
Now I have a cousin who stole from my family. I have forgiven him, but I won't trust him again. That he would have to earn. Just because I have forgiven him, doesn't mean I am blind to his nature.
Thats not an oath, thats beautiful stuff. Isn't it amazing how we are so affected by what others do to us. It took me years to figure out where my own anger was coming from with my wife. Every single women in my life starting with my mother did things to hurt me. I so wanted for this not to be the case, that whenever my wife and I would start to argue, I would immediatly see the arguement through to the end in my own little head, and see her leaving me. that fustrated me, because it was the last thing I wanted. All I wanted was a happy family. Once I realized that it what happened to me in my past that was stirring up my anger, I got a better hold on it. I still carry around a little bit of the hurt, but God has healed me for the most part. As issues come up, I give them to God. Reconizing the attacks is key to nipping in the bud before it gets out of hand in my mind. Our minds are battle fields. I have been, married now for 11 years, it wasn't until 3 years ago that I had figured that out. My wife was saved when she was 12, I don't know how she put up with me all these years, I guess its because I am generally a nice person. I got saved this year, and it solved even more issues between us, and we have never been happier. This is a short overview, its hard to sum up a life story in a few words. But I know you'll understand.
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Thanks. Sad but true.
quote: THEMSELVES. That's the point. They are happier believing a lie than accepting the truth.
quote: Bingo.
quote: But we are not talking about meeting people's emotional needs. We are taliking about perception of reality.
quote: Sure, many times. Everybody has. I do let in evidence contrary to what I want to believe, however, so I have probably mostly corrected myself.
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Of course. That's what my loved ones are for, and I for them.
quote: I am interested in logic and reason, and how religious people marry the illogic of religion and faith with the need to be logical and rational in day to day life.
quote: Pretty much.
quote: Nah. I have never thought that way.
quote: We are just really, really intelligent adaptive apes. Not dieties. Special withing the Animal kingdom, yes, but not dieties.
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
Thanks for quoting in your reply! It's MUCH easier.
Everyone who hears voices inside their head that tells them to do things is most likely a nut, yes. Or self-deluded. quote: How do you know it's all good? If you believe it is from God, it is, by definition, all "good", right?
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Which God/gods?
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: There is no influence. What could it be? The rates of good, bad, and indifferent things happening to people are exactly the same if you are a believer or if you are not.
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Dan Carroll Inactive Member |
I have prayed about what you have said to me. you bring up a lot of hard issues, and sometimes I do not have all the answers. But the truth of the matter is that God has put the responsibility in our hands. Well, no offense, but I hope you can see how "I don't have an answer but still think I'm right" isn't really gonna fly with me.
You seem to be getting mad at single incidents and refuse to look at the bigger picture. There are many things that will not go our way. Actually, things are going great for me. I've had fantastic week, all things told. It's other people that the really bad crap has happened to. And while they may take some comfort in the fact that good things happen elsewhere to other people, somehow I doubt it. I mean... assuming they're alive to be able to take comfort in it, that is.
By you not believing in God, and in fact being angry about the whole thing, does not do a single bit of good. Well, given that I don't believe in God, I'm really not angry at him. No moreso than the inch-tall baboons, that is.
Instead God needs people like you to help sort things out, instead of making them more confusing. Hey, from where I'm sitting, it all looks pretty straightforward.
I don't think you are in any kind of position to judge God's priorities, as you do not know them fully. See previous posts. If God does in fact exist, then I know what he hasn't done. And you've told me things he has done. If you're right, then that puts me in a pretty good place to judge his priorities.
The situation you are judging is your own personal priority. Just becasue you feel its bad that people are dying, they may actually be happier now going home to the father. So once again, it was wrong of me to assume that Africans don't like to be killed. "If I had to write ten jokes about potholders, I don't think I could do it. But I could write ten jokes about Catholicism in the next twenty minutes. I guess I'm drawn to religion because I can be provocative without harming something people really care about, like their cars." -George Meyer, Simpsons writer
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
You know what, and this is for you, even if it was fake, which I do not feel it is, it is such an awesome feeling, and so peaceful, so full of Love, so perfect, that I do not want to feel any other way. quote: How do you know?
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nator Member (Idle past 2199 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
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This message has been edited by schrafinator, 11-01-2004 09:41 AM
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lfen Member (Idle past 4707 days) Posts: 2189 From: Oregon Joined: |
This is obviously true What appears obviously true is not thereby true particularly when we aren't talking about something we are immediately examining. You have become convinced of one of many explanations that humans have come up with in the course of the developement of culture. What is "obvious" to me is that these are explanatory myths useful in living together in groups and dealing with the anxieties of the ego. Culture is a very important aspect of human psychology but because our brains can use a variety of explanations and cultural practises it leads to differences of opinion and even cultural conflict. lfen
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