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Tangle
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Message 551 of 1484 (802916)
03-21-2017 5:47 PM
Reply to: Message 550 by Modulous
03-21-2017 5:39 PM


Re: on the hatred of nice Christian bigots
Modulous writes:
And I'm saying 'no'.
I think that covers it. Thanks.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 553 of 1484 (802921)
03-21-2017 6:56 PM
Reply to: Message 552 by Faith
03-21-2017 6:22 PM


Re: The Main Points
Faith writes:
I'm surprised to be in agreement with Tangle at all about anything at all, but he's doing a very good job of making the case that good and decent people who are not discriminating against anybody are being persecuted for obeying their religion about the meaning of marriage and nothing else.
Just for the record, I obviously disagree that the people that refuse these services are right to do so. They are wrong both according to the law, according to an objective view of how people should treat and think of other people and also, rather sadly, contrary to Christian teachings of loving your neighbour and do as you would be done by. Jesus would not discriminate in this way. Your views are not Christian Faith.
I defend the rights of LGBT people to fight for their right to be treated fairly and to take all legitimate actions to do.
But I'm saddened that having won those hard earned rights very little consideration seems to being given to those that now find themselves wth beliefs that are at odds with the new reality.
The cases so far raised that have been found wrong in law are very finely balanced, the harm - if any - is slight, and the discrimination indirect to the point of insignificant. From memory, the UK case finished with a 500 fine - equivalent to a minor traffic offence.
My personal view is that the cause would benefit from displaying tolerance to minor infractions rather than pursuing them through the courts.
But I've said this many times now so I'll give it a rest for a while.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 633 of 1484 (803061)
03-23-2017 12:02 PM


I don't think there's much mileage arguing rationally about why these so-called Christians are wrong about their beliefs about homosexuals; they're deluded, rationality has nothing to do with it. They are incapable of reading the bible without confirming their own bias. People that believe in witchcraft, satan, 6,000 year old earth, Noah's Ark, people riding dinosaurs, women made from male ribs, Trump etc etc. believe the impossible.
It's hard to imagine living with these people as a straight person let alone a gay. It's also hard to believe there are so many of them - it's so damn stupid.
Education, education, education....

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 641 of 1484 (803069)
03-23-2017 12:36 PM


As a fundie baker, I have a plan. Note on the door.
"Happy to bake anyone a cake, just don't tell us who you sleep with.
If you need a message on your cake for a special occasion, first choose your cake from the catalogue, pay for it, then pop it into the lead-lined box in the corner. Type in your revolting message and our robo-atheist will write it on the cake without causing a theistic meltdown."
A hacker could have a lot of fun with that.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

  
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Message 661 of 1484 (803111)
03-24-2017 5:31 AM
Reply to: Message 657 by Faith
03-24-2017 1:39 AM


Re: Not persons but a political/religious belief or concept
Faith writes:
But only a Christian actually feels the sting of conscience about gay marriage, you don't so you're left ibtellectually supposing things about it without any real idea of what it's about.
The problem people are struggling with - and it's the same with every subject you take on from geology to evolution to bible interpretations - is that you have a programmed mind which can't be influenced by facts and evidence. You are under the delusion that you actually know the mind of god and in a very specific kind of way.
You don't know his mind of course, you've fallen for a particular cult's explanation that matches your mood and you now inhabit the bubble which reinforces it. That bubble has had as one of its tennets that homosexuality is an abomination for generations so you're sensitised to it - or as you put it, you've developed a 'conscience' about it.
Could happen. But conscience isn't a mere "principle," it's a sense of God's mind and heart, not something "established" or subject to alteration by mere thought.
You see, you haven't yet had your consciousness raised on this issue but now that Islam has become an issue in our cultures I'm sure you'll be able to let this into your 'conscience' too. It looks like you already are.
'Conscience' is what you have learned from the culture you buy into - it has no supernatural origin.
Edited by Tangle, : No reason given.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 683 of 1484 (803150)
03-24-2017 4:19 PM
Reply to: Message 679 by Modulous
03-24-2017 3:04 PM


Modulous writes:
The law was passed before she opened her shop as far as I can tell. The law was passed in March 2007. She opened shop in the summer of 2007.
I think you need to drop this line. A small town baker would have absolutely no idea that his cake business would become part of all this. Now they might be more aware, but not then.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 685 of 1484 (803155)
03-24-2017 5:52 PM
Reply to: Message 684 by Modulous
03-24-2017 4:39 PM


Modulous writes:
The argument was that the law came out of nowhere. The counter-argument that it did not seems perfectly valid to me.
There are two problems with this.
1. You are not a small town baker emebedded in a fundamental Christian culture.
2. You are sensitised to such matters and embedded in your LGBT culture. You know the law on this stuff, there's no reason they should. Particularly then.
What seems perfectly valid to you is not necessaily perfectly valid to them. If it was there would not be this clash of cultures.
Further to this, the Klein's discussed the Masterpiece Bakeries cake a year earlier (the bakery that made a cake for a dog wedding, but refused the cake for a gay wedding in 2012) and had already decided they would act in contravention to the laws should the issue come to them, so even the argument that a business owner being ignorant of business laws applicable in their area at the time they were setting up their business ultimately falls over anyway.
If you're saying that the people involved in the original case knew before they set up their business that all this was going to be a problem and that they did it anyway, Then fuck 'em, sue their arses. But is that what you're saying?

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 687 of 1484 (803164)
03-25-2017 6:42 AM
Reply to: Message 686 by Modulous
03-24-2017 6:36 PM


Modulous writes:
They not only had a reason to know, they had a legal and ethical duty to know.
Oh get down off your horse - small retail businesses know the law on barely nothing outside stuff that directly affects them. And I'd worry about even that. They're running these little shops because they left school at 16 and believe the simple-minded nonsense they're taught in church.
Even after all the fuss about bakers and gays, I'm prepared to bet that there are many businesses that still don't know that they can't refuse to sell something if it's discriminatory. I agree that this is an argument to continue calling them out on it.
Their response to learning a complaint was being raised, and the appropriate legislation under which they were running afoul to post the names and address of the couple on Facebook and talk about their 'brave stand' to Conservative media, proudly proclaim they would continue to refuse to serve same-sex couples and put up a sign in their window asserting this.
Well they would wouldn't they? they're believe dumb and bigotted stuff. The point where they put up signs like No blacks, no Irish, No gays etc is the point when it's pretty fair to say they know what they're doing and they need to be shown how wrong they are.
Edited by Tangle, : No reason given.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 694 of 1484 (803179)
03-26-2017 3:51 AM
Reply to: Message 691 by Rrhain
03-26-2017 3:06 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
So when you wrote:
You risk alienating your friends by raving at those that support your cause but have the audacity to suggest that maybe other ways of pursuing it are now possible.
You didn't mean it?
Etc
As I read through your latest rant I was thinking that it's exactly like discussing with a religious zealot. The way you pick out words from an argument to make them match what you have in your head as my position whilst ignoring all the rest that tells you it's not is just like a creationist. You have no objectivity in this matter - you're an aggressive drunk in a pub just looking for reason to lash out.
You have directly stated that there is some sort of "artificial" activity going on (Message 129):
And I have repeatedly said that I have no reason to believe that in the cases we've discussed here that there has been. Though I have heard accusations made that in others there have. Stings for bigots would be an effective way of publicising the campaign would it not? And surely you don't doubt that many more radical actions have been taken than that? I'm not even sure it's a bad idea anyway, so whatever point you are trying to make is lost on me.
Perhaps you should focus on the point I'm trying to make instead of inventing your own for me?

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 700 of 1484 (803185)
03-26-2017 5:09 AM
Reply to: Message 697 by Rrhain
03-26-2017 4:26 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rhain writes:
Your assignation of nefarious purposes to gay people is homophobic bigotry. It requires gay people to justify their fight for equality as legitimate when that is the position we should be starting with. As if you are the arbiter of what is a "real campaign."
Ok, I wasn't going to bring this up because even though you're being a total idiot and being as big a bigot as those that you oppose, we're on the same side of the discrimination argument. And given what you say above I think the argument that you may risk alienating those that support you is proven.
Do you recognise anything below?
In their 1989 manuscript, After the Ball: How America Will Conquer Its Fear and Hatred of Gays in the 90s, Harvard-educated marketing experts Marshall Kirk and Hunter Madsen meticulously laid out the homosexual lobby’s blueprint for success in what is widely regarded as the handbook for the "gay agenda." They devised a three-pronged approach that included the following major strategies:
(1) Desensitization: Desensitization, wrote Kirk and Madsen, means subjecting the public to a continuous flood of gay-related advertising, presented in the least offensive fashion possible. If ‘straights’ can’t shut off the shower, they may at least eventually get used to being wet. As the authors put it, homosexuals should be portrayed as the Everyman. In no time, they said, a skillful and clever media campaign could have the gay community looking like the veritable fairy godmother to Western Civilization.
(2) Jamming: Jamming refers to the public smearing of Christians, traditionalists or anyone else who opposes the gay agenda. Wrote Kirk and Madsen: Jam homo-hatred by linking it to Nazi horror. Associate all who oppose homosexuality with images of ‘Klansmen demanding that gays be slaughtered,’ ‘hysterical backwoods preachers,’ ‘menacing punks,’ and a ‘tour of Nazi concentration camps where homosexuals were tortured and gassed.’"
Kirk and Madsen added: In any campaign to win over the public, gays must be portrayed as victims in need of protection so that straights will be inclined by reflex to adopt the role of protector ... The purpose of victim imagery is to make straights feel very uncomfortable. In a related move, the authors and their ideological cohorts began to smear anyone who disagreed with their agendas as homophobes, hatemongers, and bigots.
(3) Conversion: Kirk and Madsen called for the conversion of the average American’s emotions, mind, and will, through a planned psychological attack, in the form of propaganda fed to the nation via the media. "In the early stages of any campaign to reach straight America," they said, "the masses should not be shocked and repelled by premature exposure to homosexual behavior itself. Instead, the imagery of sex should be downplayed and gay rights should be reduced to an abstract social question as much as possible. First let the camel get his nose inside the tent and only later his unsightly derriere!"
Kirk and Madsen actually admitted that their task was to manufactured a "gay civil rights" movement founded on the premise of widespread homosexual victimization.
Adapted from "Unmasking the 'Gay' Agenda," by Matt Barber
(February 13, 2008).

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 710 of 1484 (803259)
03-28-2017 2:50 AM
Reply to: Message 707 by Rrhain
03-27-2017 6:28 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
You still have an automatic response that gay people fighting for their rights is somehow "alienating."
Why not read what I say instead of inventing what I say? If nothing else it would save you time. I'm not going to keep repeating it just so you can keep misinterpreting it.
Start again, turn you bias off - the entire world is not against you. Recognise your friends or lose them.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 714 of 1484 (803263)
03-28-2017 4:44 AM
Reply to: Message 713 by Rrhain
03-28-2017 3:55 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
So which is it, Tangle? Would a "sting for bigots" be something that "does more harm than good," that "alienates" people, is just an example of people "looking for a fight," that "doesn't hep the cause," and "doesn't look good"
It's all their to read Rrhain. If you care to read all that I say instead of cherry picking you'd perhaps understand. But at this point you're simply convinced by your own bias so I'm just going to let you continue to tilt at your windmill until you get bored.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Tangle
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Message 718 of 1484 (803267)
03-28-2017 5:22 AM
Reply to: Message 716 by Rrhain
03-28-2017 4:59 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
If you are truly as baffled as you claim you are regarding the response you're getting
Who said I was baffled? It's quite clear what's happening, we get it from Faith all the time.
if you truly think this isn't worth continuing, why do you keep doing so? Is somebody forcing you to respond? Do we need to call the cops so that you can be rescued from your tormentors? Give us a sign!
Watching delusional bias at work is extremely interesting. But I'll try to help you out by repeating something I said earlier in yet another attempt to get the simple point I'm making across.
Tangle writes:
Just for the record, I obviously disagree that the people that refuse these services are right to do so. They are wrong both according to the law, according to an objective view of how people should treat and think of other people and also, rather sadly, contrary to Christian teachings of loving your neighbour and do as you would be done by. Jesus would not discriminate in this way. Your views are not Christian Faith.
I defend the rights of LGBT people to fight for their right to be treated fairly and to take all legitimate actions to do.
But I'm saddened that having won those hard earned rights very little consideration seems to being given to those that now find themselves wth beliefs that are at odds with the new reality.
The cases so far raised that have been found wrong in law are very finely balanced, the harm - if any - is slight, and the discrimination indirect to the point of insignificant. From memory, the UK case finished with a 500 fine - equivalent to a minor traffic offence.
My personal view is that the cause would benefit from displaying tolerance to minor infractions rather than pursuing them through the courts.
But I've said this many times now so I'll give it a rest for a while.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 722 of 1484 (803275)
03-28-2017 7:50 AM
Reply to: Message 720 by Rrhain
03-28-2017 7:04 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
And thus, you show you're a bigot.
You don't get to decide what is "minor" to another person. You don't get to tell others to "shrug it off."
You know what's coming, Tangle:
Fuck you.
You don't have the luxury of living their lives for them.
And thus you prove yet again, your own bigotry. You can't abide a difference of opinion. An opinion not about the discrimination itself, but on possible responses to it.
Like I say, by exhibiting your intolerance of diference as violently and as crudely as you do, you risk alienating those that are on your side of the main argument.
Edited by Tangle, : No reason given.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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Message 729 of 1484 (803314)
03-28-2017 5:00 PM
Reply to: Message 725 by Rrhain
03-28-2017 3:36 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Rrhain writes:
That's just it, Tangle:
You're not on my side.
So much is obvious - I'm on the side of tolerance, you're a manic zealot.
Luckily I don't judge your cause by the individuals that it circumscribes, I judge it on it's rightness. And the LGBT community doesn't deserve to be discrimated against no matter how intolerant some within their community are.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien.
"Life, don't talk to me about life" - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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